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So I made the small dih community mad. No. I can’t pretend to enjoy sex w someone that I can’t feel. Men judge women’s titty & ass sizes 24/7.. what’s the big deal 🤣
I wish we could know a man’s dick size before getting too invested/catching feelings lol 🤷‍♀️ like I need to know what I’m about to be stuck with bye LMAO
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Anonymous 1d

It’s totally fine by me, if women knew my dick size without me having to show it to them I’d probably get laid way more often 😆

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Anonymous 1d

Not being able to feel them during sex really must be a depressing experience. Like holy shit both parties just want to die in that moment

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Anonymous 1d

I’m a dude with a small dick and I don’t care about the post either way tbh. It honestly makes sense you’d want to know the size from the get-go. I’d want to know similar things about a potential GF but it’s taboo to ask about both.

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Anonymous 1d
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Anonymous 1d

u preach girl!!!

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Anonymous 1d

There is no big deal. People are allowed to have preferences but don’t complain when people’s preferences don’t include you. Separate note, the body positivity movement has almost completely dissolved overnight. I thought we weren’t supposed to judge other people’s bodies 😂.

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Anonymous 1d

I will say as just a dude witnessing all of the comments it’s kinda been hilarious so thank you for the entertainment

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Anonymous 18h

I want to know if girls swallow before I become too invested.

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Anonymous 1d

Women can grow their ass though or get implants or a bbl or atleast shape it. Men can’t do ANYTHING. the 2 most judgeable factors (height and Dick size) literally cannot be changed.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Know things such as?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1d

yeaaaa I mean personally, I was nice about it yk? I didn’t straight up say it 🥲 just came up with an excuse to not talk to him afterwards..

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

If I was that guy I mean I’d know… but damn I’d also make sure that never happens again. Sign yourself up for surgery

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1d

Some girls like small dick tho

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1d

😂 how I feel rn:

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Lmao but in all seriousness just ask I know plenty of us would just tell you

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1d

U can change ur dick size, js like there’s plastic surgery u can get ur dick enlarged. At least the majority of woman don’t look at men like a piece of meat and often times give them the benefit of the doubt regardless of their sexual chemistry. Most men objectify woman completely. Hope this helps :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1d

And woman don’t just “grow their ass,” that’s actually the stupidest thing I’ve heard. They put at minimum years into working out and “forming” their glutes to be slightly larger. Ur ass can’t js go from an orange to a watermelon. It’s a muscle just like everything else, and takes hard work, dedication and an extreme amount of time

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

It’s extremely risky and has extremely low risks of success. It’s not a reliable surgery at all. And I find it funny that you yourself can speak for the majority of men and women😭 you already lost me

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

I never said it was easy😭 I said it was possible. Ofc it takes time and consistency but it’s an ACHIEVABLE factor. That’s my point

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1d

✌️🫩 keep up bro, it’s a simple concept that is Litterally the reality we live in

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

It’s not😂 because you yourself have not met the majority of men or women. You’re speaking from the majority of people that YOU have met💀 so your points don’t Equate to the true majority of people. Sorry for you being objectified though🤷‍♂️

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1d

It is 🤣 bc if it wasn’t then this would be an issue that many many many woman feel. We wouldn’t have a label for “pick mes” and “fuck boys”, woman would fear men for possibly being r@ped bc he’s staring at us too long and paying a little too much attention to us. It’s unfortunate that ur in denial, and clearly are not a woman. Bc every woman is taught this at a YOUNG AGE, which is even more crazy???? And pointed in our society. It’s not the “majority of people that I have met” it’s the majority🫶

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Wish I could wear a shirt

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

For what?

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

Like I said before you already lost me. If you think that you speak for everyone then you got it.😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1d

Have a nice life bud🫶😊, hopefully u figure this out one day ✌️🫩

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 1d

Yeah me personally, I don’t give a fuck if I’m not a man’s preference.. I’m not going to complain lol and women’s bodies are always going to be judged. I think it’s okay for us to not want small dicks sometimes

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

You too beautiful

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 22h

A bbl is literally one of the riskiest plastic surgeries… women have literally died getting them, but apparently that’s reasonable and dick enlargement isn’t?

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 22h

And no it’s not “achievable” for every woman. You know genetics decide muscle potential and fat distribution, right? right??

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 22h

It’s a lot more successful than penis enlargement surgery. And it is achievable. genetics play a factor sure but you can get to the peak of your bodily potential in the gym unless some medical prevents muscle growth. It is a possible factor. Sure there is a minority but my point is once again is that it is not impossible and more attainable then height and enlargement surgery

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 22h

The vast majority of women can do a hundred squats a day for years and never look like kim k. and even if they can, how is that a reasonable expectation to avoid being disrespected by men? how much risk of complications / death, how many hours of effort do women need for basic respect? just idiocy

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 22h

!!! Preach

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 22h

Preachhhhh 😝😝😝

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 22h

I agree with this statement to an extent. But I this goes both ways for both genders. Most guys can lift all they want and not look like Henry Cavill. The bottom line is that both men and women have difficulty fitting into beauty standards. Also it is impossible to pretend that height is not a big deal and that is completely innate. It is not as one sided as you think.

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 22h

Kim k has a BBL so I’m not sure what you’re trying to imply💀 either way sure but you can still shape your body to look better or enhance your glute muscles. Why is there so much disagreement with this.

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 22h

I never ever said that it’s a reasonable expectation to disrespect women why do all of yall do is take a statement then run off and put words in people’s mouth. My statement is directed to the OP’s post not whatever tf you’re talking about

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 22h

yes that’s the freaking point. the vast majority of women need surgery to look that way, which comes with extreme cost, discomfort, and risk of complications

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 22h

you started off this chain whining that men can’t change their penis size but women can change their butt size. this clearly implies that it’s “better” for men to judge women’s bodies. if not then wtf are you whining about and trying to say???

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 22h

I’m a guy btw and I just got back from my secret weekly meeting with my boys about how we’re going to subliminally convince our girlfriends to get bbls. No one thinks like this besides you. Not one person I have ever met was like “you know I want my girl to get a bbl”

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 22h

the issue is that women are judged much more harshly when they don’t fit into beauty standards, and any time a woman makes a comment about men’s appearances, men are absolutely outraged (case in point here) while they at best don’t gaf about men judging women’s bodies and at worst engage in it themselves

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 21h

Here I’ll make it easier objectifying is wrong on either side. But think about it. Height is not even a sexual factor and it’s literally so important to a lot in dating standards. I wasn’t saying that it’s ok for men to judge women since they have more changeable standards. I was just explaining why so many men were touched by her comments. Because it’s harder to change

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 21h

what tf are you talking about? your buddy #8 over here is the one saying that women should just get bbls if they want to conform to beauty standards. and yeah you’re a guy i can tell lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 21h

height is important to many women experiencing physical attraction. do you also complain when men have preferences about hair color, hair length, eye color, nose size, facial symmetry, race, waist to hip ratio, etc etc etc that have nothing to do with sex?

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 21h

Never said that once again I just explained OPTIONS that y’all have😂 brother when did I say all little booty women should get BBLs. This is the shit I’m talking about just making shit up. Preferences are preferences but people are going to get upset regardless. That’s why the OP saying “what’s the big deal” about wanting men getting mad about her judging penis sizes is causing her hate. It’s really simple

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 21h

8 is dumb as fuck and does not represent even close to the majority of men. All of those traits you listed for women also apply to men. Let’s not pretend women don’t have beauty standards of men. What 8 tried to say is that many of the most important features women look for in men are innate while the majority of women can improve their looks to a large extent ESPECIALLY NATURALLY. If you are fat you can loose weight. If you are skinny you can build muscle.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 21h

Pretending this is not the case is doing yourself and others a disservice.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 21h

THANK YOU. That is it😂 she’s making shit up I never said all women should get BBLs bro come on

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 21h

you’re the one making stuff up and constantly contradicting yourself, but given your argument has no logic to it, this makes sense. i already explained to you about three times how women having the “option” to get a bbl is irrelevant and doesn’t support your point. and now you’re saying “preferences are preferences” after claiming that men’s were somehow more justifiable?

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 21h

my point is not that beauty standards don’t exist for men. my point is that women are judged MUCH more harshly when they don’t conform to that standard and get a MUCH more vitriolic response when attempting to hold men to any standard (as this thread proves)

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 21h

and that is an OUTRAGEOUS claim to say most men’s standards are changeable. men judge much more than weight. how are women supposed to change their race for example?

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 21h

he literally called you a dumbass lmao and i never claimed you said that. either you can’t read or just have no more arguments that make even a little sense

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 21h

It is as logical as it can be when addressing the OP’s concern of being confused about why men were getting pissed at her original post. You literally sat here and tried to make it seem like i was saying that women should get BBL’s and That Men can judge women since their standards are less changeable. Like I said in the FIRST post was that men were getting upset because once again she was judging parts of men that are literally unchangeable is it ok that women want bigger sized men? Yes.

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 21h

Does that mean that people are not gonna get mad when you try and slander those who aren’t bigger sized men no. It’s once again extremely simple. Preferences are ok to have but you can’t expect people to not be pissed when you judge those that don’t have those same preferences that’s it

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 21h

“Your buddy #8 here is saying that women should get BBL’s if they want to conform to beauty standards” sure I can’t read

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 21h

Oh dear enough with the race baiting bullshit. Men have to deal with the same amount of scrutiny. Literally go to any college bar and see.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 21h

first of all, you are truly stupid if you don’t understand that the op was being facetious (did the laughing emoji not give it away???). she’s not genuinely confused as to why men are upset, she’s calling them out on their hypocrisy for being upset while judging women’s bodies

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 21h

second of all, make up your mind. is it not ok for men to judge women’s bodies regardless of how “changeable” they are, or are men justified in feeling upset that women are judging them for an unchangeable feature?

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 21h

I can’t even lie it sounds like 11 has internalized this so much that it is the only thing they can see. Being ugly sucks for both genders. It literally is the way of the world.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 21h

yes, you have extremely poor reading comprehension. that is a conditional statement dumbass

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 21h

oh god you’re an idiot too. how is it “race baiting” to say that men have racial preferences? this is an objective fact. and no, men are not judged as harshly for physical features. this is also not a controversial staement

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 21h

Because women also have racial preferences you dumbass oh my god

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 21h

and if you really want to go down the “MEN HAVE RACES TOO” path, then women have heights and men have weights lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 21h

You live in a world where you have made men out to be this evil thing. You have literally created them to be villains in their own mind.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 21h

you are genuinely intellectually disabled. how many times does it need to be explained to you to men are not judged as harshly for these features? men also have height preferences, but i sincerely doubt you would argue that women are judged as harshly for height as men are

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 21h

define “race baiting” idiot

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 21h

i see you don’t have anything remotely resembling an argument anymore. hope you learned something but know you didn’t

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 21h

I would absolutely never argue that women are judged more for their height as men are. The fact that you would think that up as an argument to somehow validate yours is ridiculous. I am also not intellectually disabled 😂.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 21h

good god you’re dumb. try reading that again. i literally said you would never argue that

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 21h

do you know what “sincerely doubt” means?

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 21h

That was absolutely race baiting. Also anyone can look up a definition for race baiting idiot, not sure why you would ask me that. But yes you brining up race in this context saying how men have strong racial preferences like literally everyone else does not is race baiting. It is also a stupid argument to make.

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 21h

Nice try, I took vocab back in 4th grade idiot. I promise I am smarter than you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 21h

you’re dumb as fuck. i asked you to define it because it would expose how fing stupid your statement is. but i guess any mention of race gets you all riled up lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 21h

ding ding lmaooo

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 21h

alright y’all can take it to the DMs now

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 21h

i promise you’re not given your inability to understand basic logic lmao. but the dumbest people always think they’re smart. care to actually respond to what i said / acknowledge that your previous statement is objectively incorrect based on what I said?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

nah i gotta expose these dumbass men and their illogical arguments. he’s free to stop responding once he realizes how stupid he sounds though

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 21h

LMAOOOO YOU CANT EVEN UNDERSTAND YOUR OWN FUCKING ARGUMENT. YOU LITERALLY DONT EVEN KNOW WHAT I SAID check your reading comprehension dumbass holy fuck

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 21h

ok pigeon trying to play chess lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 21h

LMAO sorry posts won’t load fast enough. But yes you are incredibly stupid.

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 21h

It’s not illogical I’m tired of responding of repeating the same shit over and over.😭 but if that’s what you think then you got it 🤷‍♂️

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 21h

Completely off topic but since you brought it up I can play chess blindfolded.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 21h

Agreed I’m going to the bar to judge women’s bodies now.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 21h

yeah you’re repeating the same thing over and over bc you literally cannot comprehend the counterarguments. bye

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 21h

i don’t give a fuck lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 21h

Go back to hating from the couch

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 21h

bye dumbass

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 21h

😭😭😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 21h

Because every counter argument you’ve made goes to my original point.😭 go find a men hate page to argue on bro. You got it,

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 21h

you have not responded to literally anything I have said. if you want to try one, respond to my question on if you thought the op of this post was genuinely confused about why men are upset

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 20h

didn’t think so dummy

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

honestly, i’ve gotten used to saying i was small for so long that i just stick to that, plus the reactions is such a confidence boost like my first ex said small and everyone else stares at me like im not real but the small thing still sticks to me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2h
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