Confessions on Sidechat | if being a provider is part of your core identity them women are naturally going to wonder what you can provide. doesn’t make us gold diggers i fear.

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Confessions 18h

if being a provider is part of your core identity them women are naturally going to wonder what you can provide. doesn’t make us gold diggers i fear.

Anonymous 15h

Then you could also say: If being a caretaker is part of your “core identity” then men are naturally going to wonder how you’ll take care of us (cooking, cleaning, etc.) (for the record I disagree with both of these takes because imo they’re illogical and unfair in today’s world)

Anonymous 18h

being a provider isn’t part of my core identity then

Anonymous

#1 18h

then you’re not my taget audience lol.

Anonymous

OP 17h

poo

Anonymous

#2 15h

sure sure. but the point is that if you voluntarily make a specific role central to your identity, people are allowed to consider that role when deciding whether you’re compatible.

Anonymous

OP 15h

Ahh okay that makes sense I agree tbh