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Confessions 11w
question, when yall r doing long distance with a girl, do yall ever get a little worried whenever she goes out to like, bars or frats or is in a sorority going to mixers and whatnot. i rlly dont wanna worry my bf but i love to party
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Anonymous 11w

if you trust your partner there’s nothing to worry about. i’ve never understood this fear bc if you think they’ll do something why are you with them? if someone wants to cheat they’ll find a way regardless of what situation they’re in

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Anonymous 11w

Yes ofc they get a lil worried bc they’re not there with you

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

i agree. i always text him and reassure him but im starting to think he’s starting to care less. i told him guys kept touching me and all he said was “that’s crazy”

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

Cuz he knows ur cheating on him

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

wait that is crazy bc i’d at least ask if my gf was okay after that?? it’s weird af to be touched by men you don’t know especially when you’re out 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

if she was cheating why would she tell him dumbass 😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

like do you actually think someone who cheats is telling their partner they were being touched?? ofc not

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

dude i know. it was insane. but i don’t want him to think i’m trying to make him jealous??? like im deadass telling u the guys here r creepy

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

Yes? You never know there’s so many ways he could be thinking of

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

So why do you keep going if the guys are creepy?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

i’m in a sorority sweetheart 😭 we’re going to be going out. plus i should be allowed to go have drinks w my friends without some guy grabbing my arm or waist

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

Okay so from what you’re saying, never date anyone in a sorority

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

if that’s your takeaway then perhaps the girls should be steering clear from u instead

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

it’s so crazy you’d sooner blame the woman than the MEN who are being creepy

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

It’s what you’re saying and ur bf understands too so maybe u should steer away from him. Thoughts?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

The WOMEN is the one cheating tf?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

ah yes bc being groped = cheating. misogynistic ahh dude

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

she literally isn’t? being unconsensually touched isn’t cheating

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

If you call that being groped, why don’t you stop going? You have the power to stop going yk?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

And what do you think her bf is supposed to react with when she tells him a guy touched me? He’s not thinking abt this nonsense ur chatting abt, he’s thinking cheating

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

so i have to stop having fun with my friends in MY COLLEGE TOWN because of creepy men who should be staying home instead…?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

umm hes supposed to ask if she’s okay? like a decent person? BC SHE WAS UNCONSENSUALLY TOUCHED?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

and men have the power to stop doing that! why should women be responsible for the bad behavior of men?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

i feel atp he’s trolling bc there’s just no way someone could be this ignorant

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

i really hope so but there are a lot of guys that genuinely feel this way 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

insanely disturbing

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

That’s what you’d think. He’s thinking she’s trying to make him jealous by that msg; maybe she should’ve provided more context to him for me to agree with you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

you’re projecting so hard oh my god

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

Insanely disturbing how you think you’re in the right too

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

Not really, I’m just telling you how he sees things because I clearly understand and you don’t

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

for my own peace of mind you’re ragebaiting bc there’s no way you’re actually this stupid

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

exactly why i gave up

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

and men wonder why they’re lonely when they act like this 🫩

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

And women wonder why they’re always clueless when it comes to men

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