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Yeah so we had sex. I’m a horrible person, aren’t I?
Last night I made out with a married man. I’m pretty sure that tonight we’re going to go farther. I feel so fucking guilty about it but then when I’m in the moment all I can think about is how much I want him
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Anonymous 1d

Maybe you should go to the whitworth counseling instead of look for sympathy anonymously online - a suggestion ☝️

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Anonymous 1d

Nahh you’re a bad person - don’t mess with married people, not knowing is one thing but being aware is a different beast

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Anonymous 1d

#2 Youre also bad for enabling

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Anonymous 1d

I think this is great

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Anonymous 1d

That married man will never dump his wife for you. You’re just a play thing to him and you’re wasting your time. Do yourself a favor and stop being with him. It’s worse if he had kids.

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Anonymous 1d

This can only possibly be non-destructive if you are using contraception, plan on keeping it a secret, he plans on keeping it a secret, and neither of you need more from the other. Maybe he leaves her for you. Maybe you are ok with that. Maybe not. Maybe you two love and support each-other from a distance for a while

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Anonymous 8h

I guess I’m trying to figure out what you’re looking for from all of us. Or is it just feel good to confess to it? If you want to chat via DM I’m available

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Anonymous 1d

No, you’re not

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Really?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Why?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I mean you’re enjoying it and he’s the one cheating not you

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

I’m still betraying his wife too though

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

You’re probably right and it sounds like you’re feeling miserable about it so maybe just move on if you can

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

I don’t think I can just move on from this. It’s already haunting me

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Yeah I know I’m a bad person and I know that knowing he’s married and knowing his wife makes it worse

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

I’m not looking for sympathy. Maybe don’t jump to conclusions- a suggestion

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

I never expected him to leave his wife for me, and I don’t want him to. I don’t think I’m just his play thing though. He doesn’t have kids

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Do you mind letting us know your ages?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 23h

I’m 22, he’s 24

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9h

You are just his play thing. You’re in denial right now but you’ll see for yourself eventually. I’ll microwave some popcorn 🍿 It’s fun to see naive women learn.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9h

I’m not his play thing. It’s a much more complicated situation than that

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8h

I initially posted it just to confess it because it felt good to get it out of my head a little because the guilt was so strong. Some people did message me though and chatting about it surprisingly helped too

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8h

Good deal

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