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the process of actually having a kid is so unfair i can’t get over it 😭 wdym i have to change everything about my life for 9 months while risking death or lifelong complications and then GIVE BIRTH?? not to mention recovery and breastfeeding 😭😭
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Anonymous 1d

And postpartum depression. And losing yourself.

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Anonymous 1d

And then you’re responsible for it for the rest of your life

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Anonymous 1d

That’s why I had a vasectomy. Not worth if for future partners

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Anonymous 17h

uhhh so don’t have a kid

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Anonymous 1d

Looking into your newborns face will cure all of these thoughts and feelings

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

yeah but it doesn’t change reality now does it 😭 this also isn’t even true, do you know how common postpartum depression is?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

idk how people have kids id be so worried for my partner if they were pregnant. you’re right that it’s not worth it

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 17h

yeah i’m not. what does that have to do with my post

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

oh, your post made it sound like you were so determined that you’d put up with all that 💀

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