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I need to lock in and stop caring about romance. Just focus on school, the gym, my hobbies, and my friends. Things I neglect a bit when I’m crushing. It’s time. I can still have a crush, but I should put everything else first.
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Anonymous 5d

This post might be a sign 😭

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Anonymous 5d

Also gotta focus on my family as well, forgot to mention that in the post

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Anonymous 4d

Yes do all that with family in your life and romance will come to you I promise it happened to me a definitely will to you if u grind and better yourself

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Anonymous 4d

romance inspires me to lock in at the gym ngl

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Anonymous 5d

Damn who hurt you bruh?

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Anonymous 4d

That’s what I been doing all my life, but I’ve only dated 1 person for like 2 months

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Anonymous 4d

Same boat here

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Anonymous 4d

I’m glad that you’re self aware but there’s nothing wrong with desiring romance. It’s a natural thing to want someone to share your time with. However I’m glad that you see that it’s making you neglect other tasks. I’m proud of you! 😁💕

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Anonymous 4d

You might be right 🙏

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Anonymous 4d

felt this in my fucking bonessssssss

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5d

Myself. I was too preoccupied thinking of a certain someone and didn’t finish my school work

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

Certain someone?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4d

Just the guy I like. It’s not even just thinking about him, it’s also wanting romance in general and I have a bit of a one track mind. It might be because I’ve never had a relationship. I don’t think I will either. Better to just not think about it anymore.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

It can for me sometimes, but what helps me lock in more is my goal of enlisting in the military. I don’t think college is for me.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4d

Lock in with me

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4d

I just gotta make myself proud and focus on what makes me happy for now. And longing certainly doesn’t make me happy. I’m excited for the day I meet someone, but I won’t put my life on hold waiting for it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

I will

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