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I need help or advice getting over a “breakup” with a guy that was never actually my bf but we ended things on terms of “wrong place wrong time” instead of not liking eachother or something bad happening

Anonymous 2w

I’ve felt this too. The what ifs are crazy debilitating. I’ve been ruminating over it to an unhealthy degree. If this is someone you really care about, I’d try to go for it again. however that may look like. You don’t want to live with the what ifs. If there were genuine concerns or red flags I’d encourage you to heal and stay busy- ultimately move forward. Find purpose in your life again. I’m a Christian, so faith has played a huge part in this for me...

Anonymous 2w

He was if you were going to live with him

Anonymous

#1 2w

What’s helped me is reading about how God wants us to keep moving forward and trust him. So I’ve made a vision/prayer board of a happy future life without that guy, and im doing things to work towards it. It’s not linear. And things may not go to my plan, but I know who holds my future and I can trust him. He’s pulled me out of darkness before. I know he can do the same for you.