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My problem is that I have a strong harmony of feminine AND masculine energy. So I don't yearn for/seek out that lacking masculinity, as a girl. So my motivation to get a bf is freaking abysmal 🥲 like I AM my boyfriend
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Anonymous 1d

Like eh been there, done that, doesn't really add anything. Subtracts a lot tho!!! And then they always end up being heavily affected by my weird flux, like rapid flipping in confusion I just exist and bro suddenly exhibits raging anxious-attachment and sensitive gf ish nonstop. Like their feminine energy explodes which in turn messes with my flow and pushes my masculine energy to dominate and then it all gets weird and I'm like Yeah Imma just stay away from everyone and leave everyone tf alone

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Anonymous 1d

Uh ig I don’t really do the whole feminine/masculine energy thing, I just am. I date my partner because I want to and there’s not really an energy thing involved. I do “boyfriend stuff” and “girlfriend stuff” but I don’t really think of it like that. I just do it. I’ve never really considered that it could be a thing. I’m pan so maybe I’m naturally immune or something.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Can anyone relate to any of this at all? 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 22h

I'm just an overthinker, I overanalyze tf out of everything 😭 Like so many elements go into human attraction and levels of desire for intimacy/romance/sex/love/etc One big one is a subconscious gravitation towards qualities that'd compliment you and even deeper down, a gravitation towards certain pheromones/immune-system components/etc And being around certain elements subconsciously drives certain reactions, like being around very dominant masculine energy can coax result in one shifting to-

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22h

More feminine energy Just like how being with a dismissive avoidant can push a secure attachment into anxious territory Basically I ruin everything by ripping it up 👍

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