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I very intensely dislike the way straight males talk about and conceptualize sex
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Anonymous 1d

You “cracked” that “female?” You “blew her back out” and “used her holes” and “filled her up?” Excellent. Now turn and face the wall, please

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Anonymous 1d

Too many people degrade what sex is man, makes the act less enjoyable. Intimacy needs to be intimate

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Anonymous 1d

Women use those terms all the time on this very app.

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Anonymous 1d

What annoys me even more is that they still use that gross language when a woman is talking about how she wants to have sex “you gonna let him hit?” “Yea he’ll want you if you put out for him” it’s so annoying how even when WE are the ones are in charge of speaking about how WE want sex we’re still diminished to terminology that puts a man at the center of sex

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

LMAO REAL

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Anonymous 1d

Always porn-piled, violent, and degrading. Always framed as something done “to” a passive recipient…. #noticing

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Even if straight women did use those terms with the same frequency and intent of their male counterparts (they don’t), it wouldn’t clear them of their revolting connotations. But sure, let me adjust my thesis: I intensely dislike the way straight people talk about and conceptualize sex. Perhaps we should ban straights from sex until we can figure out what’s going on?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

…clearly you’ve never been on grindr. Definitely not exclusive to straight people 🙄

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Maybe you should stop trying to attach this to a group of people and just say you don’t like when people talk about sex with a violent or demeaning connotation. That’s totally reasonable. I definitely agree that on this platform specifically there are a ton of goblin mode straight dudes though

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