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Most guys say exactly what they mean without hidden meanings then findout that women want them to decode meanings behind things said or implied & apparently “no” doesn’t always mean “no” after several classes literally enforce “no means no”. I’m tired fr
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How hard is it to communicate 🤣
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Anonymous 3d

Before the femcels come for me; “no doesn’t always mean no” backstory; I asked a lady out and she said no. I accepted that and asked another lady out. The first lady got upset and said that she expected me to try harder after she said “no”. I’m standing there and remembering every single time I was instructed “no means no” at social studies and early development classes. It gets tiring and in the end it is just best to focus on yourself. It is way less confusing.

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Yes, when it comes to romance and sex, no always means no. If anyone doesn't think that they're in the wrong. I'm sorry you're struggling but that's still a weird thing to say... not to mention that saying most guys say exactly what they mean is just not true, they say what they mean when they're stupid and horny, but that's it 🫩 why do you think they have to be taught that no means no in the first place?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

That’s why I chose peace and stopped dating. It’s basically a roll of the dice haha and to quote a great movie “The only way to win is not to play.”

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

“When it comes to romance and sex, no always means no.” In general,“ no should always mean no” , it’s poor planning to say one absolute then create several loop holes for it. I admire your attempt at a personal attack, clearly that lady wanted attention and I moved on, only for her to come back & explain herself. I am not struggling, I am simply tired of bullshit liars and gaslighters. “Most guys say exactly what they mean” is true and you know it. A racist man would walk up and speak his mind.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

If a guy doesn’t like another guy, he makes sure everyone knows it regardless of being called an asshole or a menace. The kind of people who are 2 faced and pretentious, that would say one thing while meaning another are typically not masculine people.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

My conclusion is that if the issue is a communication issue, then the fault is not from the gender that says exactly what they mean.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

ok first of all 1. It was not meant to be a personal attack on you. I'm saying the woman was wrong for not communicating. I just didn't like how you worded it, it kind of implied you changed your mind about "no means no" being the default. If she wanted it to mean something else, she should've communicated it before expecting you to know that. So she was wrong. No still means no. 2. No, I know damn well that isn't true. I am a man and I date men. Please get back to me when you date men,

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

because communicating and boundaries is different for romance than friendship or other relationships

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

I will never date men, so let’s go our separate ways with the knowledge that we will never agree. Goodbye forever.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

ok continue being willfully ignorant I guess????

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