Anonymous #1 5w

Personally I just think people that are overly lustful lack self control & enjoy having variety. It’s hard to think they’ll be satisfied with you for long. Also I’ve just seen ppl go to lengths to satisfy their lustful nature whether it means hiding stuff or hurting people in the process.

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Anonymous OP 5w

Some lustful people can still have self control. I’m a pretty lustful guy too, but I still went two years without sex just bc I controlled my desires instead of letting them control me, even when I had opportunities for sex.

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Anonymous #1 5w

My bf doesn’t have that same self control

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Anonymous OP 5w

Well then that’s the real issue, not the lustful part. A lack of self control is a serious issue for anyone in a relationship even if they aren’t lustful.

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Anonymous #1 5w

not necessarily. I think that lack of control stems from his lustful nature.

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Anonymous OP 5w

Has his lustful nature caused him to do impulsive things that he probably shouldn’t have? During or before your relationship? Is that the stuff that you’ve learned about his past that’s made you feel this way, or did he do things during your relationship with him that made you think that way already? Or both?

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