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New nonnegotiable unlockedšŸ”“ If you let a man disrespect me, friend of yours or not, and you don’t do anything about it. I can’t be with you.
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Anonymous 2w

i agree but i don’t feel like this is a gendered issue, if my partners friends were talking shit about me and my partner was not standing up for me i would be upset, but i would also know i need to stick up for them if my friends said something, but also i feel like my friends respect me enough to know better

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Anonymous 2w

Wym let? Can’t you speak up for yourself or do you want the guy beat the guy up for you?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I can handle my own. But I won’t be with someone won’t defend my honor as well.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

If a man can disrespect your girl and your first instinct is to let her defend yourself you’re failing as a man

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

That’s because they can totally speak for them selves cause they are strong independent women! But then also wait I’m a dainty woman defend my honor! It’s one of the other you can’t have both

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

If I have to have the balls in the relationship, I don’t want it. Speak up.

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 2w

Bro somebody shit talking ur girl is not it lmaooo nobody saying u have to literally fight but just say something and speak up. Men tend to be pretty imposing towards women, which can leave some women feeling flustered. Why would you want your lover, gf, wife, partner, ever feeling negatively when a sentence or two can soothe the situation ?

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 2w

Because typically any person that disrespects a woman most likely will want to fight. And most likely the guy will get hurt.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

So I’m confused? So you want a man that will stand up and defend your honor. Which is a typically traditional value. Yet he most likely can’t expect traditional values from you? Cause logically if he is ā€œthe manā€ in the traditional sense. You would have to be ā€œthe womanā€ in the traditional sense. So cook, clean, and raise the kids at home

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Dude, you are way out of your league here. Where in the fuck did I bring up traditional values? Stick to the argument or get out.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

dawg what, genuinely why do you think letting people disrespect your partner has anything to do with gender roles

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Lmao bro stop being so scared and thinking in extremes. We’re talking about casual day to day situations not some one- off experience, which I’m sure no woman would want their bf fighting a delusional man on the street. Things like making jokes or even ā€œlocker roomā€ humor involving ur girl from ur friend, things like that .

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

I support this šŸ’Æ

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

Yea I feel this same way. A big issue in my last relationship was whenever someone would disrespect me or joke about me , my ex would join in cuz she thought it was harmless joking. But in my mind it should always us vs them so I defend her, she defends me etc. Check your friends on their bs regardless of gender

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 2w
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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

AMENNNN

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