Anonymous #1 1w

Why are men concerned about gold diggers when they have no gold.

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Anonymous #2 1w

see that’s valid cause at least ur honest

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Anonymous OP 1w

The term ‘gold diggers’ in this day and age is vague and honestly obsolete. A man can be happy with what he has and the money he makes (a lot or a little) but it’s still gold to him.. and MAJORITY of women these days feel the need to be spoiled over true companionship, communication, or honesty. Just my opinion. Not knocking what you said one bit

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Anonymous #1 1w

Idk someone seemed mad like I personally attacked you with that comment

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Anonymous OP 1w

See, his honesty over my honesty is more acceptable cause my truth compared to his is more appealing. While we were both being brutally honest, you challenged my point.. yet accepted his.. point and case.. nobody wants to hear to real thruth that hurts..

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Anonymous OP 1w

Not mad at all, complete opposite in fact. I enjoy an actual debate or conflict of interest. Welcome it actually. But you’re deflecting

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Anonymous #1 1w

Oop ur mad

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Anonymous #1 1w

At least he knows what he wants

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Anonymous #1 1w

Brother. Women extract resources. It’s just their nature. Quit arguing with nature. I don’t think 99% of women are really “gold diggers”. They just usually want something from the relationship. Like men

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Anonymous #2 1w

And most of the time what they want isn’t money

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Anonymous OP 1w

Key word, NOT MAD NOR OFFENDED. But keep deflecting cause you have no debate.. best wishes and happy holidays to you 🥰

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Anonymous #1 1w

Idk those caps tho someone seems a lil mad ngl

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Anonymous #1 1w

this isn't a debate, you're just kinda interjecting your opinion and then slapping the word "debate" on it afterwards. most people, regardless of gender, don't behave that way, and it's a pretty unrealistic and sweeping generalization overall

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Anonymous #2 1w

Money is a figment of your imagination. The real wealth lies in what you are able to do and provide along with how well you’re able to speak amd connect with a person. I make plenty of money but that’s not why im happily married or continue to grow as a human.. just saying.

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Anonymous #1 1w

most people want to feel loved and appreciated. women are not trying to extract money from you. most relationships aren't transactional. however, if you treat every relationship like it's transactional, it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy

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Anonymous #1 1w

You’re preaching to the choir. Money is not real at all. Honestly not even sure what we’re arguing about anymore

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Anonymous #3 1w

It’s most definitely a debate because it’s a difference of opinion.. you think one think, i think another. And we are speaking about it.. that’s a debate.. and the fact that most people regardless of gender ‘don’t behave that way’ just feeds into what i’m saying as to true companionship or desire for a mate or parter in life is based off of what the ither can economically provide for them compared to physically and or metally. Again, not hating or saying you’re wrong. Just an opinion you can’t g

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Anonymous #3 1w

Agreed 100%, but MAJORITY of women this day and age seek security and financial dependency from a man over what they can actually provide or bring to the table. Which was my point from the start. Fuck yeah there’s women that seek and thrive to find companionship sexually, spiritually, and emotionally.. but compared to the ones that want to be a stay at home wife/mom, the difference is astronomical

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Anonymous #1 1w

Okay but you realize my post was asking why do men seek a housewife if they have no home

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Anonymous #1 1w

Brother women have jobs now. It’s the complete opposite. Women used to have to rely on men because they couldn’t have jobs. Now they all got jobs. They are looking for other things

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Anonymous OP 1w

Yes, and sorry to immediately respond with a counterpoint to that. My fault 100%. Tad bit tipsy. But my argument ties into that in a way. I guess. But to respond to your initial statement, 9/10 men want a woman that’s easy to manipulate and is obedient just cause he’s making $$ and or has the ability to let her be the ‘housewife’ compared to jointly working and making the home a better place therefore. Better?

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Anonymous #2 1w

Oh i know. My wife makes double what i do. And i love and appreciate her that much more cause of it. But don’t act like there’s women out that that solely want to find the man that makes good money, pays all the bills, and has to spoil her in order to keep her around juct cause she has the golden jewel between her legs that we as men seek and kill ourselves for.. it’s a double edged sword that we both dance gracefully upon. Some better than otherz.

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Anonymous #1 1w

a debate involves the logical defense of a position using facts. proven, peer reviewed, factual information. hasty generalizations are not facts. your first comment, which you are basing your entire argument off of, states that women seek stability because women lack stability. that is the definition of a sweeping generalization, not a fact or stance that you can debate upon.

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Anonymous #1 1w

furthermore, to say that i am proving your point, and that men and women both prioritize economic factors over any other factor in a relationship, is an even broader, wider generalization about fucking everybody. my point is that no one behaves that way. you're trying to say that yes, no one behaves that way, because EVERYONE behaves that way. not only is this wildly inaccurate, it also makes absolutely no sense. this is not what a debate is

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Anonymous #1 1w

so you are simultaneously saying that economic stability takes precedence over everything for both genders, AND also money doesn't exist and doesn't matter? how do these two beliefs coexist?? do YOU even know what you believe?

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Anonymous #3 1w

Was your initial statement not exactly what you’re explaining in excruciating detail about my response tho?? Or does that not matter?

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Anonymous #1 1w

yet another hasty generalization. most women decidedly do not want to be stay at home mothers. get off of social media and speak to real life human women, and you will hear this first-hand. statistically, right now, women outnumber men in higher education. also, again, does money matter or not? you can't seem to make up your mind on that front.

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Anonymous #3 1w

…. I have a wife that makes double what i do cause she went to school and I didn’t but we’re beyond happy.. but nice try.. kudos and happy holidays to you. Best wishes

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Anonymous #1 1w

so then why the hell do you keep saying that other women are somehow all different from the woman you live with. your OWN HOUSEHOLD doesn't even operate under the gendered expectations you set, so why do you continue to uphold those expectations as realistic? your own personal experience disproves your own argument

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Anonymous #1 1w

yes brother that is what a debate is. systematically dissembling someone else's stance using reasoning and facts. i'm not "explaining something to you in excruciating detail" i am disproving your argument using the various elements of a debate. THIS is what debating looks like. not just hurling unsubstantiated opinions out into the world and then trying to avoid criticism by saying "agree to disagree"

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Anonymous #3 1w

You just can’t accept an opposing view as a valid point is all it boils down to and that’s what’s wrong with the world today. I dont disclude nor disregard your opinion, mine just differs fron yours and you can’t accept tge fact that i actually view and believe that opinion. Point and case as to why the world we live in is fucked cause nobody can accept the fact that someone sees something differently than they do and can actually be at peace with that fact. But again, much love, and happy holi

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