Anonymous #3 5w

Society, religion, my parents, the men around me, online dating advice from men, podcasts by men, twitter… do u want me to keep going

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Anonymous #4 5w

This isn’t true. Women are taught to see men with higher body counts as “more experienced”

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Anonymous #2 5w

just the way you use the word crack is enough to make me never want to fuck you

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Anonymous OP 5w

When I told my 2nd gf I had 12 when she had 2 she used to get such bad retroactive jealousy it’s not better on the other side trust me

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Anonymous #4 5w

Retroactive jealousy is not the same as calling women whores because they had sex.

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Anonymous OP 5w

Crack

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Anonymous #5 5w

I feel like it’s only a challenge for men to get women because of the way we as women have been taught about sex. you’re told to be a virgin or have a low body count so ur not just going to fuck any guy because that’s a “waste of a body” lol

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Anonymous OP 5w

I would just live my life the way I wanted. I’m a guy sure I can do those things but knew plenty of ladies who did too

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Anonymous #4 5w

10 isn’t even a big number

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Anonymous #6 5w

What princess bs? And what are the truths I must accept after lmao

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Anonymous #8 5w

You are they are little whore 😜

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Anonymous #7 5w

Ha! Didn’t proof read. Their!

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Anonymous #8 5w

U don’t proof read either lmao

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Anonymous OP 5w

That’s what I meant lol lazy grammar

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Anonymous #2 5w

😭

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Anonymous OP 5w

I think they’re just talking about being and safe and have a safe mental state cause some people will get attached easily and get into dangerous situations to have sex

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Anonymous #7 5w

It’s literally not? When I was 14 I was in a lot of relationships with grown ass men in their 20s-30s idek how big my body count is. everything is circumstantial. Since I’ve been an adult I’ve only been with 3 people (4 years). 10 is not big.

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Anonymous OP 5w

It’s also the fact that there’s not only pressure, but it’s almost an expectation that all men are going to be very sexual and if you’re not, there’s something wrong with you. Men are taught to be very promiscuous

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Anonymous #11 5w

totally agree, it’s also why some women don’t see the issue w going for much younger guys. and guys growing up not realizing that they were SA or groomed because they’re taught to be sexual

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Anonymous #12 5w

I’m not walking out with my pussy out. They should still treat me like a human being even if they don’t want to date me. Not act like they’re cool with me being who I am just so they can use see me for sex. You’re just a misogynistic piece of fuck lmao; that’s evident in whatever the fuck I just read. You probably see women who wear short skirts as the equivalent of a man walking out with his dick out. Men walk around shirtless all them time and society acts like it’s normal behavior.

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Anonymous #12 5w

Somebody being hypersexual is not a reason to not treat them with respect and dignity. You are allowed to not date them based off your preferences but it’s still their human right to be treated with respect u idiot. Also I DIDNT SAY SHIT ABOUT BEING HYPERSEXUAL. Women are slut shamed for having as much as one body. Pls stfu and stop being such an ignorant prick.

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Anonymous #12 5w

You missed the point of this post, believe it or not !!!

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Anonymous #12 5w

How I present myself shouldn’t mean that people treat me any less of a person.

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Anonymous OP 5w

Judging by your attitude I don’t think it’s your sexuality that threw them off lmao

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Anonymous #12 5w

fuck off and get a life

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Anonymous #7 5w

Ok let’s circle back a moment. When you were 14…you were in a lot of relationships…with grown ass men?? 20s-30s??? Girl what the FUCK

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Anonymous #13 5w

You’re making it sound like it was her fault….

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Anonymous #3 5w

The point is right there and bro still missed it. It’s cool that you can live the life the way you want to anyone can’t, but that doesn’t negate the fact that there is still shaming and purity culture shit. I’m a dude too but it doesn’t take having more than two brain cells to see the state of religious power and how it’s permeated into our culture and treatment of women

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Anonymous #11 5w

U get it

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Anonymous #3 5w

Also she’s ranting mostly about how she’s not taking seriously because she’s seen as sexual and an object. Bro be fr. There are consequences and it’s nice to be as privileged as we are to not have to deal with ppl thrusting their views and denying ppl respect or even oppurtunities for advancement bc we happen to be dudes.

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Anonymous #11 5w

This I can agree with especially with social media, it’s so hard to do anything without someone judging you😭 the women back in the day had it so much easier

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Anonymous #11 5w

Yes even one downvoting me doesn’t realize I was literally victimized. Yes, my body count is higher than 10 but a lot of it was statutory rape as a child. shit is circumstantial

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Anonymous #11 5w

Stop living your life the way others want you to live it and go live your life. Idgaf if you’re religious or politically unaligned or it’s not cool on social media. Going out for the 4th night in a row. Parents don’t like it but I’m an adult spending my money and being responsible so kick rocks.

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Anonymous #3 5w

Dude again it’s not like mean words or teasing? This isn’t like bullying that you can just ignore and brush off it. It’s in our culture. It could deny her opportunities relationships with loved ones and I’m sure a lot more. bro it’s cool that we can just be like that sucks anyway but it’s everywhere for women even in careers like the very thing you need so you can buy food and pay rent to live? What do you think that telling women to just brush it off because it’s no big deal to you accomplish?

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Anonymous #11 5w

So you’re telling her to restrict herself for the culture and conform but I’m the bad guy

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Anonymous #3 5w

Who said that? That’s what you took from that? Not oh this is a problem and we should do something about it? Not acknowledging that yeah we kinda got a lotta privileges so we should have empathy and a drive to tear down this line of thinking? The point is that no one should have to restrict themselves like that. You could do something even if it’s just like acknowledging that this is an issue and trying your best not to help perpetuate it

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Anonymous #11 5w

“Hey the world is a big mean place and all the people in it come with opinions. You can stay true to yourself or them. Whichever path you choose the people that want to be in your life will be in your life and the people that can’t accept you for you will fall out of it. It’s up to you to figure out what makes you happy and be that version of yourself. Or wear a mask and make the others happy.” - me I said that shit

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Anonymous #3 5w

You’re missing the point. Women are literally killed over this shit.

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Anonymous OP 5w

Sorry if you’re in the Middle East nvm ignore me.

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Anonymous #3 5w

i lived there for a while 😭

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Anonymous OP 5w

Post makes more sense. Carry on

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Anonymous #3 5w

I love that you ignore like the actual consequences pretending like this is just a “be yourself” “live laugh love your way out of it” kind of situation. I also love that you only acknowledge women’s suffering and your privilege in it if it’s the evil little Middle East. We aren’t like that! There’s no gender based violence in America bc we are the good guys and they’re the bad guys :)

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Anonymous #11 5w

Bro rly trynna compare the gender based violence in America and the Middle East 💀💀 making Cal look bad

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Anonymous #12 5w

Gender based violence exists in America… we got our own issues over here. and maybe don’t look to the Middle East as a moral compass… would be a good start! Like idk why’s yall mentality is “well we aren’t as bad as them sooo” women in the U.S still experience slutshaming culture

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Anonymous #12 5w

I don’t even think he knows what he’s championing anymore. Have a great day if you want to #11

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Anonymous #3 5w

You’re the one not making sense not him lmao

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Anonymous OP 5w

Furries exist and you don’t think you can be yourself or do what you want? Good luck

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Anonymous #3 5w

😭😭😭 ur missing the point brother. I am very much a sexual deviant and I’m proud of it im literally just discussing double standards and women shouldn’t have to be brave in order to be themselves they should just seen as they are

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Anonymous #11 5w

Not my fault you took it that way 🤷‍♀️ it’s just concerning as fuck and crazy to causally drop in a comment

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Anonymous #13 5w

Dude come on. She was vulnerable with her experiences and you freaked out about it. You don’t need to get defensive if that really wasn’t your intent but instead you double down and tell her she’s crazy and imply her experiences aren’t relevant or even trivial by calling it “casual” you’re digging a deeper hole instead of thinking a bit about why you responded to her like that

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Anonymous #13 5w

Btw it was relevant bc she was talking about how “body count” doesn’t always take into account ppls circumstances or past

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Anonymous #3 5w

Furries exist 💀 bro what an argument lmao

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Anonymous #12 5w

This just in local ass compares women being sexual to a man committing an active crime by waving around his dick. When confronted ass continues to double down. More at 6

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Anonymous #11 5w

1. I didn’t get defensive 😭 2. I didn’t “tell her she’s crazy,” its wild how overly sensitive people just constantly make problems out of nothing to defend their point lmao

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Anonymous #13 5w

“It’s concerning at and crazy”

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Anonymous #11 5w

Yes, the comment is crazy. What’s so hard to understand lmao

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