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Confessions 18h
just cus she’s 18, doesn’t mean it’s not weird
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Anonymous 17h

I had an old friend who was tryna date a high schooler. He was 28 and she was 18. “But it’s not illegal…YOU are the one making it weird bro!” He quite literally would pick her up from the high school in the carpool line. It didn’t last long; she blocked him after like two dates because, in her words, he was “a fucking creep.” We tried to tell him.

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Anonymous 17h

EXACTLY!! a large age gap is really only okay in my eyes when you’re 21+, before that you just like kids fr

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Anonymous 16h

Legality doesn’t determine morality

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Anonymous 16h

If you are actively trying to date someone way younger than you, you have an unchecked power dynamic kink, you are not looking for partnership nor a healthy relationship.

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Anonymous 15h

Say it again for the freshmen hunters

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Anonymous 18h

Exactly

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Anonymous 16h

Age is just a number until it’s below 21

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Anonymous 16h

say it louder for the people on the right!

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Anonymous 16h

I’m 18 and my boyfriend is 20 lol

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Anonymous 13h

Highest age that should be dating an 18 year old is 20 or freshly 21 imo

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Anonymous 14h

That’s my old coworkers excuse when his 18 year old wife from the Philippines appeared… they have a 20 year age gap

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Anonymous 12h

Sounds like you’re jealous

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Anonymous 17h

🤷‍♂️

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17h

that’s disgusting behavior good for yall for trying to call him out

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 16h

I mean…it can still be consensual

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 16h

That’s fine

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 15h

HAHAHAH

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 15h

it’s honestly so common here in the south. it’s genuinely seen as an accomplishment when a much older man, more than likely generationally wealthy man, ends up “bagging” someone who’s 18-19 years old

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14h

Curious, did your creep friend tell you her words, or she told you directly?

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 14h

I never met her. He showed me the texts she sent him right before blocking him, the last of which was her calling him a creep. It was one of the most pathetic conversations i had ever seen, and the 18 year old seemed far more mature than my 28 year old friend. We arent friends anymore btw, he’s legit a pretty awful person.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14h

Child that is not the point

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 13h

wtfffff

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 12h

he says as if i’m literally not the 18 year old in question ✌️ try again tho

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

Did you just assume my pronouns? It’s they them and you still sound jealous the 21 year old chose your friend instead of you

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 12h

Ur either a man or a woman

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 12h

Neither. I’m gender fluid

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 12h

who r u talking about genuinely? you sound like a fucking schizo

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 12h

no one chose anyone over me dummy. you’re attacking me cus u feel convicted for going after teenagers

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

It’s giving transphobia

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 12h

it’s “giving” you’re making shit up. get out of my comment section with your wannabe wokeness

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 12h

transphobic for calling out a pervert. yeah right

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

Or maybe you should check your privilege. You will not silence a proud gender fluid person

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 12h

Wb 18&21?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

18 year olds are legal adults sorry you’re scared that you aren’t a kid anymore

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 12h

You’re AMAB

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Anonymous replying to -> proudmanhater 11h

Bro you can be lgbtq+ and still creepy. Sincerely, a member of the lgbtq+ community

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

Oh bonus… we work in education bro

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 11h

oh dear lord

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

Yeah after I found out and they weren’t going to do anything I dipped

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 7h

ok if you’re gender fluid you should be okay with being addressed as “he”. the whole point of gender fluidity is being okay with being addressed as any pronouns. don’t victimize yourself on an unrelated post out of the blue as a defense mechanism because you had nothing to fall back on when the OP responded to you. happy pride month! grow up

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7h

feels international. #niche

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15m

in oklahoma they were calling people communists for trying to ban child marriage...

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Anonymous replying to -> haganshows 6m

wth 😀

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