Confessions on Sidechat | One of my dealbreakers in a relationship is smoking. I’m perfectly okay being friends with people who do but I draw the line when it comes to people I date. Is it something I should be lenient on or is it normal to have that boundary?

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One of my dealbreakers in a relationship is smoking. I’m perfectly okay being friends with people who do but I draw the line when it comes to people I date. Is it something I should be lenient on or is it normal to have that boundary?

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Anonymous 7w

You can have any boundary you want

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Anonymous 7w

It’s normal cuz I wouldn’t date someone who didn’t smoke. It’s a vibes thing

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Anonymous

#2 7w

Thank ya :)

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Anonymous

#4 7w

I never thought of the flip side of it! Thanks for sharing bro

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Anonymous

OP 7w

Yeah y’all wanna be the same type of person. Someone who does do drugs and someone who doesn’t like it is never going to work long term

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Anonymous

#4 7w

Yeh for sure. It tends to lead to resentment and tension in the end

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