Confessions on Sidechat | One of my dealbreakers in a relationship is smoking. I’m perfectly okay being friends with people who do but I draw the line when it comes to people I date. Is it something I should be lenient on or is it normal to have that boundary?

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Confessions 1d

One of my dealbreakers in a relationship is smoking. I’m perfectly okay being friends with people who do but I draw the line when it comes to people I date. Is it something I should be lenient on or is it normal to have that boundary?

Anonymous 1d

You can have any boundary you want

Anonymous 1d

Cigs or weed?

Anonymous 1d

It’s normal cuz I wouldn’t date someone who didn’t smoke. It’s a vibes thing

Anonymous

#1 1d

Cigs, weed, and vaping. But I don’t mind as much with the occasional use of weed just not someone who’s addicted or needs it regularly

Anonymous

#2 1d

Thank ya :)

Anonymous

OP 1d

Fair

Anonymous

OP 1d

I can’t help but notice you didn’t mention crack hard rock cocaine

Anonymous

#3 1d

Oh my bad hard drugs for me are a big no as they are for most people. I was talking specifically about more common recreational drugs that people are okay with

Anonymous

OP 1d

*most people I know/hang out with

Anonymous

#4 1d

I never thought of the flip side of it! Thanks for sharing bro

Anonymous

OP 1d

Yeah y’all wanna be the same type of person. Someone who does do drugs and someone who doesn’t like it is never going to work long term

Anonymous

#4 1d

Yeh for sure. It tends to lead to resentment and tension in the end