Confessions on Sidechat | I don't necessarily agree lol like I am an ally I also just don't have to live my life on hard mode so why would I voluntarily choose to do that?

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I don't necessarily agree lol like I am an ally I also just don't have to live my life on hard mode so why would I voluntarily choose to do that?

21 upvotes, 5 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Confessions. "I don't necessarily agree lol like I am an ally I also just don't have to live my life on hard mode so why would I voluntarily choose to do that?"

Anonymous 21h

As someone who is trans, its absolutely valid to not date someone who is, especially if you know you wouldn’t be able to provide them the support they need

Anonymous 20h

why are trans people so obsessed with dating 😭 no other group uses attraction as a means to judge whether or not someone is an ally

Anonymous 20h

like I thought we all agreed sexuality isn’t a choice

Anonymous

definitelynotarat 17h

I feel like it kind of depends person to person with how hard it can be? Like dating my ex (trans girl) was super rough on my mental psyche because of how much I had to do to help her through her depression and suicidal thoughts. Meanwhile my fwb (transmasc nonbinary) is super chill to be around and has been very helpful in recovering from that previous relationship.

Anonymous

#4 17h

Like I guess what I’ve found with me in particular is that I really vibe with trans people (hence why my friend group is primarily trans and so is my dating history) but I have just been completely drained of my wherewithal to deal with mental health crises. So while I’d love to date more awesome trans people in the future I feel like the mental health stuff might make that harder.