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I stopped talking to a guy because he said he wants his wife to be a stay at home mom
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Anonymous 1w

I don’t get why people want that in this economy

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Anonymous 1w

I want to be a stay at home wife tbh. I think the red flag is in guys demanding that their wives be. There’s a difference in that and then being able and wanting to support your wife if she does want to stay at home.

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Anonymous 1w

i'd do the same

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Anonymous 1w

Most women would love that😭

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Anonymous 1w

I want women to keep working, no breaks, no vacation. Earn your own money and stop taking mine. I’d only ever let a woman stay at home if we really loved each other and she wanted to relax while being supportive of my long hours and tiring work.

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Anonymous 1w

I really don’t see a big issue with this as a woman. I think for many reasons it makes sense. DM if you want to know my thoughts

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Anonymous 1w

That tracks with the character of you all

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

No literally. That’s why it’s just a red flag that they would want that

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

LITERALLY

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

ironic coming from you

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

I think it’s either 1) they were raised to believe traditional gender roles 2) they want to control women Honestly, they usually go hand in hand

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

As an nb, fuck traditional roles and controlling women LOL

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

It really doesn’t

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

nobody is DMing you gang 😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

No fr but I also think women have been conditioned to think that control is a normal part of love, which is part of the problem

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

I totally agree. It’s also a red flag to assume every woman automatically wants to stay at home. But a guy supporting whatever makes his wife happy, there’s nothing wrong with that

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

No i don’t think so

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

Yeah

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I do😭 you know how many women want they’re bills paid. I’m sure if they had the option to give up working they would

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