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i could never date an asexual cause wdym u arent even attracted to me
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Anonymous 1d

not how that works

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Anonymous 1d

they are attracted to you if they want to date you?? they just don't feel sexual attraction/much sexual attraction??

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Anonymous 1d

????

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Anonymous 22h

they are attracted to you?? just not sexually, it’s fine you don’t want to date someone who’s asexual but posting something with this wording perpetuates that asexual people can’t have normal relationships

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 23h

likes it's totally valid to not date an asexual if they're sex averse and you need sex, but they are attracted to you??

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 17h

okay sorry lemme specify then i couldnt date someone who does not find me sexually attractive know they do not feel tht does not vibe with me

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 17h

but not attracted in a sexual way which is wht my post is specifically about shouldve specified

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8h

so like if someone is romantically into you, asexual, but likes sex, would you not want to be with them because they don't actually experience sexual attraction?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 8h

exactly because they dont even view me as sexually attractive lmaooo how are u having sex if im not even attractive to u tht way ya know

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8h

i get it fs but there are asexuals who will have sex because it's pleasurable to them and/or their partners or they view it as a closeness activity or smth. it's not that they find you unattractive, they just don't see people and want to fuck them based off of appearance

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 8h

and again i cannot be with someone who cannot view me tht way

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1h

and that's 100% fair, i just wanted to explain it lol

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