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Confessions 2w
I had a fling years ago with this guy when I stayed in London, hot af and he absolutely SLAYED my 🐱 He added me on insta the other day and even though I’m in a 5 yr relationship I blushed like crazy when his name popped up. 🙊
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Anonymous 2w

What would be going through your mind if the roles were reversed and u saw this post on ur boyfriend’s phone?

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Anonymous 2w

honestly period queen 😭 i don’t judge

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Anonymous 2w

I hope your boyfriend is working for that #1 spot for your🐱 I could never be content knowing my girl had better🧎🏾

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Anonymous 2w

they're trying to get you in the comments op, but i get what you mean. it's not like you wanted to think of those memories. the brain is weird, and it doesn't mean you have feelings for the dude or that you want to cheat on your current partner. having a little giggle to yourself is perfectly fine, esp since you didn't make any contact and deleted the request. like??

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I didn’t accept the request and don’t plan to act on it though? Hence why I put it on anonymous confessions. I’m only human. 🤷🏼‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I think OP is allowed to get a little giddy for her younger self without doing anything as her current self who is loyal to her current man. I’m not seeing the issue with being a little excited that an old flame still thinks about you?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Don’t matter. That fact you blushed and ran to yy to say how much he pleased you, it means you got feelings for him and that’s a straight up red flag. Your bf deserves someone better than you

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Sure, ok. Coming from a random who probably can’t even find someone to be with. I know that he has fantasies of his own about other people that he doesn’t tell me about and as long as nothing is acted on irl I don’t really care. We’re all human and have impulses and desires we can’t always control, it’s how we manage them that counts.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

It is what it is. Just an involuntary reaction to a memory of a few very wild nights. 🤷🏼‍♀️ I deleted the request and made no contact.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

As if being in a relationship is some sort of high achievement? I got standards and I sure as hell wouldn’t want my man to be ozzing at thoughts about others much less an ex-whatever. no respect within yourself but can’t save all women

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