
Dang I have the opposite problem lmao I'm an avoidant with serious commitment issues (I'm working on it, I'm aware of it, I'm not out here recklessly victimizing ppl) And everyone just wants to date me 😭 ppl don't leave me alone. They want to wife me up. I just want to fuck, but they never just want to fuck. Even if they say they do, either we don't even actually fuck and they con me into cuddling and being sappy all night. Or we do, then they immediately turn aggressive psycho stalker.
So at the end of the day, I guess the message is that everyone wants what they can't have. Just masquerade as an avoidant and ppl will not leave you alone 😁👍 struggle with making friends? Same thing!! Everyone really really wants a piece of the person who doesn't want to be bothered! Remember that!