
I’m a very supportive person too. But, as Vander said, “one thing I learned about being a bartender: as good as it feels to pour other peoples drinks, sometimes you need to fill you own cup first”. You can still be her friend, just perhaps with a few boundaries. She’s gotta put in the reps for self improvement too. And if you feel she’s hindering your progress or worse dragging you down, that’s something to pay attention to. Spoken from a person that recently learned what boundaries are.