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my gf doesn’t initiate anymore despite us being together for 4+ years. she says she doesn’t need intimacy and it just seems like she won’t meet me halfway. i feel like i might have to end this relationship
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Anonymous 1d

sounds like yall aren't compatible. best of luck, find someone who fits you better

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Anonymous 1d

I think it’s okay to be “selfish” and end a relationship that no longer serves you because the other person has checked out romantically

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

yeah you’re right. sucks cuz ik she doesn’t realize how badly i feel neglected in this relationship fr

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

its not fair for you to push down your feelings to keep her happy. you matter too

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

i deadass just shed a tear. thank you ik u don’t know me but that means a lot

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

ofc brah. keep ur chin up, you're important. have an awesome day

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