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Confessions 7w
Men will think they’re being dominant, but in reality, they’re just being mean.
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Anonymous 7w

Way too many fake doms these days and it’s sad that some women genuinely believe that’s what doms are supposed to be like

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Anonymous 7w

Dominance is supposed to be fully consensual and caring. Many guys don’t understand that and just fucking suck.

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Anonymous 7w

I get icked out so fast by ts

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Anonymous 7w

Dominant is not brutal behavior, it is not degradation, it is praise, it is tending, it is directing, it is leading. Sex is like acting, it's not that the pleasure is illegitimate but it is the climax of gender performance. When we truly embody the role we wish to play for our partner we have to be comfortable in it. Men who are insecure in their gender make bad lovers, especially when they see gender as a binary. Understanding this benefits everyones pleasure.

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Anonymous 7w

Women will think they’re dominant, but in reality, they’re just bratty.

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Anonymous 7w

Isnt a dom just lead in bedroom?

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Anonymous 7w

Women think they’re cute but they’re just mean

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

A lot of people think that but in reality a dom is the one being lead by the sub. They can only do as much or what the sub wants them to do

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 7w

Yeah, that's how sex works. Because if the sub doesn't feel safe it doesn't work

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

also there’s a don for real world but it’s not like do this do that like you’re not king of the castle but more like protection and making sure your sub feels safe

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

no >:(

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 7w

Idk what you're saying no to

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

d/s relationships are relationships, not just sexual dynamics. someone isn’t automatically a dom if they “lead in bed.” pls do some research.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 7w

It shows up in real life, it's noticeable

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 7w

Being dominant is not the same as dimming my inner light Chad

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Anonymous replying to -> qtieee 7w

You don’t even know about the inner light lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 7w

#8 is a H8ter

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 7w

Buddy, I’m referring to misuse of dom/sub dynamics and men using it as an excuse for cruelty against women. I’m not sure what the correlation of your comment is to my post?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

you said that it’s just for the bedroom- you’re wrong

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Same kind of thing

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 7w

Literally how?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

How is it not

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 7w

I’m genuinely trying to understand your point of view and I’d appreciate it if you explained it to me. I don’t think they’re comparable, but I’m willing to try to understand your perspective.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Women thinking they’re being cute but they’re just mean should be self explanatory. If you don’t get it you won’t get it

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 7w

Someone thinking they’re being cute is not the same as someone trying to be dominant. Dom/sub dynamics rely so heavily on consent and trust. I think the disconnect here is that I don’t think “acting cute” is something that relies on trust.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

🥷ts doesn’t rely on “trust” any more than anything else. Why would a girl being dominant with me require any more trust than any other time

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