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this is a good outcome,mine is getting higher and everyday i think about jumping off a building
I think my sex drive is getting lower
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Anonymous 1d

Try sex toys

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

i am a guy, i have broken 4 of them, let’s just say the building looks more enticing every single day.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Channel the energy into lifting weights or smth, or meditate or do no screens. Breaking 4 toys is hilarious

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

i have tried everything, even no screens, i have a very abnormally high T and i did get like cancer screenings for it because usually it links to cancer but nope im clean, some days i wish it was cancer so i could just die like this is a terrible way to live

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

and i can’t help but break the toys like they stretch out and then the plastic holding it together breaks or the silicone rips like fuck dude why can’t they make them extra tough

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Hey dude seriously don’t hate yourself over this, you gotta still love yourself. So what if you have a high libido you keep doing you, but if it’s really bothering you consider therapy deadass it can help

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

i have tried therapy, and honestly it didn’t help much considering it’s on the medical side of things, they just told me to think other thoughts but that just feels like i’m shaking a soda

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Damn rlly, what about like food changes or hobbies outside or even (this would be a last resort) meds to reduce libido. I obviously don’t know your situation but it can only help being involved in hobbies with other people right?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

tbh i tried ssris and that usually helps people and it did next to nothing to me, made the T go down a few points but other than that still the same, i mean i could take T blockers but they said that could affect my overall health, like a 0 sex drive would be perfect right about now

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Do you hang out with people a lot or are you isolated? That could be a big differentiator (personally speaking)

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

I do hang out with a lot of people, I think it’s better to keep my brain occupied but doesn’t stop the thoughts or the feeling that much unoeee i’m actively running and even then

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I’m sorry that sounds really annoying, you got this though pull through it’ll def get better with time

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

so that’s what I thought but I’m 28 so when the fuck is it supposed to get better?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

That’s tough man but you got a whole lot of time ahead of you, you’re at your peak test rn I promise it gets better

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

i sure fucking hope so like i’m giving it 4 more years and if it only got worse i think im done

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5h

Oh wow you must be rough with them 😍😍😍😍 maybe you need a fwb with a high drive as well 😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3h

yeah probably but not so rough but more so thick like i break the plastic around the toy and stretch out the toy pretty bad like it literally doesn’t go back to how it used to

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