
this, like damn no wonder why you think me asking about your day is me being into you 😭 talked to this guy romantically who genuinely told me that at college parties his friends not only split up but will just go home separately and not share locations and tell one another, that is probably more of an example of young men feeling invincible but isnt that insane??? wdym you went back to your dorm drunk and didnt tell anyone and no one thought to look for you
Don’t want to appear invasive, plus for dudes it’s kind of an infantilization thing in that regard. Like wdym I can’t get home safe on my own? (I know that’s not actually the case, and I’ve actually walked home a bro of mine cause he has no ability to hold a map in his head, but it’s the general thought)