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Woke take of the day - the fact that women wear engagement rings and men don’t is HIGHLY indicative of our patriarchal society
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Anonymous 12w

and how fathers walk their daughters down the aisle to hand them off to the groom 😔

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Anonymous 12w

I love woke take of the day please do more 🙏🙏

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Anonymous 12w

Goddamn it-. I didn’t even think about this. And to further your point, it’s mostly only women in hetro relationships that get promise rings. While he’s bare.

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Anonymous 12w

dw my bf will be wearing a ring

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Anonymous 12w

Wait men don’t wear engagement rings?

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Anonymous 12w

yeah no shit marriage is a deeply patriarchal institution. i fear this is feminism 101

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Anonymous 12w

But isn’t the point that the dude gives the girl a nice ring as a symbol of his pledge to marry her? Would the dude also buy himself a ring? Would the girl have to know about the engagement ahead of time to get him a ring? The former kind of messes up the principle

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Anonymous 12w

Oh no!!!!!!! The HORROR!!!!!! We need to overthrow the government right this very second for this atrocity! 🙄

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Anonymous replying to -> light_pink_swan69 12w

and it was originally meant to be a promise that our virginity is his💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

Yep. The promise ring is just a purity ring repackage

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

Omg I had no ideaaa. And I had a guy saying that if we were long distance he’d need me to wear a promise ring

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 12w

Yes but also it’s not shown physically like it is on a women. To society he’s still a “free man”. They could go pick one out for him together after.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 12w

Right you sound fun. Just needs to be said and put together sometimes for people

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 12w

Don’t bother asking legit questions. This is just a bash men and the patriarchy post. No point

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 12w

Literally said nothing about the government. Thanks

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

the comments are definitely proving you right on that point it’s just kind of sad this is even a “take” especially because it’s pretty surface level

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Patriarchy is incorporated and influences government

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 12w

Like literally they don’t buy you a ring then get mad you don’t have nothing to show

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Yah I totally understand your thought process. When I get engaged I’m totally down to wear a symbol of my pledge. I just think it makes sense why the system is currently is set up the way it is.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 12w

Fr! It shouldn’t be a point

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 12w

You are right. But I didn’t say anything about taking down the government. You’re taking it to the extreme

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 12w

Same. I’m happy to wear an engagement ring. Just pointing out the patriarchal system that set it up that way

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

It’s called sarcasm. Not that hard to understand

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 12w

There’s no winning. Complain when you get them a ring, complain when you don’t. As a wise machine once said “The only way to win, is not to play.”

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 12w

Someone’s upset they can’t find love

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