Anonymous #1 3d

Imagine a guy says he wants a fit chick And then one of his photos is of his fat ass gaming on the couch. Do those things go together?😂

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Anonymous #1 3d

If you truly want a Christian guy, you’d post things of photos from like Bibles retreats, services, community involvement, all those things. Not partying and bikini photos.

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Anonymous OP 3d

Bible not bibles💀

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Anonymous OP 3d

Her body her choice …

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Anonymous #1 3d

Well then she’s lying because she doesn’t actually want something then. You can’t say one thing and then do another. I can’t be pro world peace and then support a mass genocide for example.

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Anonymous OP 3d

why are you comparing holiday pics to mass genocide

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Anonymous #2 3d

Where in the hell did I say holiday pics?😂

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Anonymous #2 3d

I said bikini pics where the focus of the photo is her ass😂. It’s not like a skiing photo, jet ski, or anything like that. Nothing actually fun and shows your interest. It’s just her ass😂

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Anonymous #2 3d

It’s like I’m Christian and I want an oddly man what photos should I put on my dating profile……. A picture from service? No A photo of me volunteering? No A picture with my dog/cat? No. Oooooooo a picture of my ass, yeah yeah that’s the one that’s the one

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Anonymous OP 3d

Godly🤦‍♂️

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Anonymous OP 3d

look at the ass & move on sheesh

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Anonymous #1 3d

I did but wtf is wrong with people lying and then bitching a moaning why they can’t get what they want when they do the exact fucking things to push them away😂

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Anonymous #1 3d

“I want a man who’s not an alcoholic” But I’m going to go out a shots 3-4 nights a week but bitch about why I can’t get a man who’s meets my standards

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Anonymous OP 3d

Another “I want a man who’s doesn’t vape/smoke” But I’m going to put pictures of me holding a cigarette or vape on my dating profile….. and then bitch when creepy crack head Brady likes me. You attract what you put out. Yes it’s your choice but as someone who doesn’t drink often, I’m not liking someone who 3-4 of their photos have alcohol in them……

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Anonymous OP 3d

Id love to see a fat booty on the couch

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Anonymous #4 2d

What insecurity?👀

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Anonymous #4 2d

✨You’re “insecure” because you’re calling out the women who bitch on social media about how all guys are shit yet they do the exact things that push away the guys they want✨ “You’re so insecure” yet you don’t benefit from this literally at all………….

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Anonymous OP 2d

bro waited a whole hour to do another response crazy work

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Anonymous #5 1d

1 Corinthians 8:9 “Be careful, however, that the exercise of your rights does not become a stumbling block to the weak.” Posting a bikini photo vs posting a photo that is purposefully posed to make your ass look bigger is a prime example.

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Anonymous #5 1d

Onlyfans Deliberately posting content that causes others to stumble……..and taking advantage of them for money……….. Is that very Christian? Take out clothing etc. is deliberately using others for your own gain what a true Christian would do?

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Anonymous #5 1d

Is posting your ass on social media to get more viewers and followers very Christian? If you’re doing it to get more likes etc? Again taking advantage of people for your own selfish gain……

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Anonymous OP 1d

Well now you’re talking about OnlyFans which is outside the scope of your original complaint (which is just bikini pics). A pic in a two-piece swimsuit isn’t always inherently sexual (unless she frames it that way). But tell me. What do you have a problem with? Let’s level set here.

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Anonymous OP 1d

I won’t lie man, I don’t wanna draw any premature conclusions before we even talk. But I think you’re just horny, and you hate how that makes you feel in contrast to your good Christian boy persona

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Anonymous #5 1d

I rejected a woman who I 100% knows what’s me😂 I’m just saying t people say they want one thing but don’t actually mean it and I think it’s hypocritical to them blame everyone else but yourself

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Anonymous #5 1d

Wants lol. But yeah I’m horny but this has to do with other people. If I say I want a fit person but all my pictures are the exact opposite does that make sense for me to complain

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Anonymous OP 1d

Just because you’re in touch with your sexuality doesn’t mean you’re a sinner or not Christian :) Church teaches us not to speak about that kind of thing. Posting a pic in a bikini isn’t always about just seducing weak-willed individuals. Sometimes people like the way they look. It’s like, if you lost 200 lbs, you’d post a progress pic too, right? And it’d probably be sexy too. Are you trying to get likes or make money off others? Probably not, right? You just like how you look

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Anonymous OP 1d

And I’m not saying all bikini pics aren’t sexual either. There are def girls who post thirst traps on purpose 😂 But as someone who was raised Catholic, I don’t judge. I’m not supposed to. They might be “sinning” in a way, but I’ve done so many other sins of my own that it doesn’t make sense for me to look down on them

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Anonymous #5 1d

Yeah I’m not saying all bikini pictures are bad, it’s more like the purposefully posed ones 😂 Like taking a picture with your girls at the beach just normally posted is fine so it’s not the actually clothing. Its how it’s used

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Anonymous OP 1d

And you gotta understand, there’s a lot of cultural context to this sort of thing. It’s not just “virtue vs sin.” A woman doesn’t always have to cover up in order to find a good Christian husband. Hell, I’m sure her good Christian husband is out there shirtless somewhere, also looking sexy as hell 😂 He’s not selling himself or degrading himself, or being any less Christian because of it

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Anonymous #5 1d

I didn’t say cover up. I said purposefully posing……..there’s a difference

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Anonymous #5 1d

Example. Taking a picture in the bathroom mirror just standing there or striking a an actual fun pose Vs. putting your butt on the counter top to make your butt look bigger😂 That has nothing to do with your outfit

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Anonymous #5 1d

For a guy that’d be wearing pants or a swim suit as low as possible to where you see the V, if they have one and taking a picture😂. With the purposeful intention of the pants being that low and posting😂

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Anonymous OP 1d

But the principle is the same, isn’t it? Because there really are purists out there who have a problem with innocent, non-sexualized bikini pics, and the same principle applies. Going to church and posting sexy pics aren’t necessarily mutually exclusive :) One can look good, one might even say sexy, and have a god-fearing husband 😆 You just gotta avoid the men who think you’re a ran-through whore for posting sexy pics lol

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Anonymous OP 1d

And from a woman’s perspective, if you’re told your whole life that your worth is closely linked to your physical appearance (which is true for a lot of women), and you start to think you look good, it can understandably be confusing when church tells you to be modest but society wants you to show what you got. This is what i mean when i say there are other cultural pressures outside the church. It can often be confusing for young women who are in their physical prime.

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Anonymous OP 1d

And finally! Even if you have a problem with Christian girls making thirst traps, we’re not here to judge. I’m sure you have sins that they’re not committing, too — we don’t have any moral high ground to stand on. We have no right to say who’s a “true” Christian and who isn’t. Because if sin makes you not a true Christian, then none of us are Christian at all 😳

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Anonymous #5 1d

I see that ai dash after too 😂😂 “-“ the normal dash ain’t that long, I support the point but the chat gpt tag team is funny 😂😂😂

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Anonymous #1 1d

Are you talking about the em dash? 😂 I just tend to use that lol. It’s better than a semicolon at splitting a sentence in some cases — like here for instance :)

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Anonymous #5 1d

👀👀👀😂 if you say so, they are usually pure AI 😂 but i get what you mean

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Anonymous #1 1d

Haha I’m glad 😆 Tbh using AI for a YikYak comment is wild work lmao

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Anonymous #5 1d

But see you control that one😂 You know why you picked an outfit, why you posed a certain way, and why you don’t thought you needed to post it😂 Ever hear about how music artists sold out? Meaning they did what they need to become popular? Regular people can do that too

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Anonymous #5 1d

And yeah I have sins I probably accidentally commit. Like you said everyone does. But there’s a difference between unknowingly or accidentally etc and purposefully doing it. And then getting upset when people call you out on it. That’s the difference

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Anonymous OP 1d

Am I judging? Yeah I probably am but at least I can admit it. I’m not saying I’m not. I’m admitting it. Some people purposefully pose certain ways and wear certain things and they’ll do anything but admit that’s what they’re doing.

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Anonymous OP 1d

I’m not even talking about sins you accidentally commit :) I’m talking about sins that you know are wrong but do them anyway. Whether it’s gluttony, or wrath, or lust, or whatever. The point is, we’re not “above” these people in any moral way, and to think so is itself a sin 😳 But hang on. What’s the issue here? Is it the fact that these supposedly Christian girls are posting thirst traps? Or the fact that, in your mind, they’re not admitting the hypocrisy? I think we’ve touched on both

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Anonymous OP 1d

I know your initial post was about the strange contrast between a supposedly Christian girl and the act of posting thirst traps (which we’ve already determined are two acts that can coexist). But are we saying that the true problem lies in her denial of this phenomenon? Because doing something and acknowledging it are two different things.

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