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Im 20 and my step mom is 3 years older than me. She’s really nice, but we have more of a sisterly or friend type of dynamic and honestly it’s so weird. Like I’m happy for my dad I guess and again, she’s nice, but wtf.
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Anonymous 4w

why r dads like this what the hell im so sorry 😭

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Anonymous 4w

girl im older than your step mom and im posting titties on sex advice

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Anonymous 4w

this is so weird i’m sorry

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Anonymous 4w

your dad’s a weirdo 😂

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Anonymous 4w

The way I would cut my father out of my life SO FAST idgaffff

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Anonymous 4w

My friends mom married a 19 year old when we were 17 then got pregnant & had a baby

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Anonymous 4w

Glad you can cope with it but that would literally make me sick to my stomach and your dad is a creep

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Anonymous 4w

this reminds me of my roommate who is also 20, but her boyfriend is a 34-year-old man from her job and he just gives incel vibes TBH

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Anonymous 4w

i’m 30. if someone tried to set me up with a 23 y/o, i would be so pissed. the decision-making centers of your brain finish developing at 25-30. which means this man is dating someone biologically less capable of consenting than he is who is also around the age of his child. not technically illegal, but very morally perverse. i wish op peace even if they don’t understand why this is so wrong at their age and hope they consider reaching out to a trusted older adult or qualified counselor.

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Anonymous 4w

It’s not your dad. It’s his 🍆.

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Anonymous 4w

My dads brothers daughter is 30 years older than me

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Anonymous 4w

So I guess by the comments he’s supposed to only date a woman who is around 30+ or so years older, otherwise anything under 29 makes him look somehow “predatory” when legally its 5 WHOLE YEARS past 18? Yeah nah women make any excuse for “predatory behavior” just because they don’t like it. These are the people you just drown out and don’t listen to.

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Anonymous 4w

Lmao that’s what happens when you get caught up always at a bar, go home away from any college and all that’s there are older people 🤗

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Anonymous 4w

Damn dad is liking daddy

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Anonymous 4w

W dad, ppl saying this is “predatory” are dumb…

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

She’s a creep too

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

that happened to a friend of mine. Her mom got engaged to a 21 year old and my friend is only 19 at the time that happened. Absolute insanity in every scenario

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

It was creepy when the step dad said you kids can call me dad…

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 4w

Do you hang out with them or just leave at that point?

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

I didn’t care for it… but they love each other.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

Do you not believe in love?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

you’re stupid. a predat0r doesn’t love their prey

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

Predat0rs are real. L0ve is real. Does age define the two is my question?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

lmao yes absolutely. some age gaps are inherently problematic regardless of whether the people involved think they’re in “love” or not

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

I think it is up to the two people. I have seen some odd couples (in my opinion), but tend to stay out of it. It is not my place to judge what someone else is doing as long as it isn’t affecting me.

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 4w

So you want someone older?

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 4w

Mind your business It’s okay you’re jealous and not getting any

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

i hope some therapist is gonna get a fat check from an insurance company when your prefrontal cortex is done cooking

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

older than 25 so they are my cognitive equal, absolutely

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

thats disgusting and just perpetuates rape culture. men are capable of controlling their dicks, you don’t get to hurt people and say “oh well my dick has a mind of its own”

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 4w

i love that. “cognitive equal” ‼️💯 like it’s wayyy more than just someone being at least 18

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Anonymous replying to -> #22 4w

I don’t understand…. What is the law you are referring to?

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Anonymous 4w

Age of consent is generally 16, but since were all adults and understand that anything below 18 with a grown adult is weird lets say the bar is at 18. Now 18 plus 5 is 23 which gives someone 5 whole years of experience into full on adulthood, getting jobs and graduating from college yet the women in this comment section perceive her as a little girl and him a pedophilic man. Why are yall treating her like a literal child?

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Anonymous replying to -> #22 4w

So she is 23 and he is how old?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

yo check this mfers hard drives

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Anonymous replying to -> #23 4w

Somebody call the cops

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Anonymous replying to -> #23 4w

The guy is 40+ the wife is 23?? Every body is jealous… and there is a 23 year old guy out there lost in the dark cause an old guy snatched up his “wife”… all I can say is ladies in their 40’s need to date young bucks too cause there is plenty of them!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

Op never said, but regardless it doesn’t even seem like it matters based off these comments, he could be 38 or 45 for all we know. Mfs in this comment section acting like once they turn 40 they wont be letting the 25-28 year old student out of college get a chance with them 🤣.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

Nah mf, YOU WEIRD.

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Anonymous replying to -> #22 4w

Scientific law: For every action there is an equal & opposite reaction… right?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

Women who do that are also predatory. like just stop being a gross weirdo

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Who are they supposed to to date when the guys their age are in bed with the 19 year olds… pretell??

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

Neither of them should be with 19 year olds wtf is ur issue

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

Do you really think every single guy is in bed with a 19 yro? If you do, then you need your view of reality checked. Just by this convo, you obviously do

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

No issue. I’m 😎just pointing out the obvious.

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 4w

I know 20 y/o ranking in #’s like 65+ notches in their belt. Ages from 18-40+ So there is some issues here folks. 🤢🤮

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