
i’m 30. if someone tried to set me up with a 23 y/o, i would be so pissed. the decision-making centers of your brain finish developing at 25-30. which means this man is dating someone biologically less capable of consenting than he is who is also around the age of his child. not technically illegal, but very morally perverse. i wish op peace even if they don’t understand why this is so wrong at their age and hope they consider reaching out to a trusted older adult or qualified counselor.
So I guess by the comments he’s supposed to only date a woman who is around 30+ or so years older, otherwise anything under 29 makes him look somehow “predatory” when legally its 5 WHOLE YEARS past 18? Yeah nah women make any excuse for “predatory behavior” just because they don’t like it. These are the people you just drown out and don’t listen to.
Age of consent is generally 16, but since were all adults and understand that anything below 18 with a grown adult is weird lets say the bar is at 18. Now 18 plus 5 is 23 which gives someone 5 whole years of experience into full on adulthood, getting jobs and graduating from college yet the women in this comment section perceive her as a little girl and him a pedophilic man. Why are yall treating her like a literal child?