Confessions on Sidechat | Is it weird that my friend who is 19 now had a cute long distance relationship with a guy from yikyak who is like in his 20s and I want the same and I’m only 18?

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Is it weird that my friend who is 19 now had a cute long distance relationship with a guy from yikyak who is like in his 20s and I want the same and I’m only 18?

Anonymous 19h

So you want a yikyakuationship

Anonymous 17h

nothing wrong with long distance relationships or wanting an older partner, but imo if you’re yearning for something similar, your best bet would be to look for someone who’s 21-or-under on an app less anonymous than this one someone over the age of 21 who deliberately pursues an 18 year-old is a bit questionable, cause that’s just enough of a power imbalance where the older partner could exert too much influence over you without even being conscious that that’s what they’re doing

Anonymous 17h

Yes a yikyakuationship is weird, go outside and touch some grass

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Anonymous

#1 19h

Lmfaooo

Anonymous

#2 17h

Oh bet I do that every dayyyy

Anonymous

#3 17h

and the whole setup of this app means that two people finding a genuine safe ongoing connection with one another is the exception rather than the rule. it’s extremely easy to lie about who you are or ghost people on here, there’s no real baseline of transparency. sites like tumblr or twitter are usually better for meeting new people

Anonymous

#3 17h

Yeah but I don’t rlly think that deep because I’m crazy

Anonymous

OP 17h

Also I think age gaps are niceeee

Anonymous

OP 17h

most people your age don’t “think that deep” about this stuff (through no fault of your own! just an issue of life experience), and older men know that. that’s a huge piece of what motivates them to seek significantly younger partners to exploit. that’s why I’m trying to offer you a bit of cautionary advice 18 & 21 is still an age gap! just, like, a comparatively safe one