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I’m a lesbian and I feel so disgusted with myself about it. Like the other women in my life trust me and aren’t accounting for the fact that I think about them… like that. I know there’s nothing wrong with being gay but I still feel predatory for it. Idk
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Anonymous 5d

SO SAME GIRL. lived my whole life crossing lines with friends and I always feel wrong but also so alive so idek life is too short gotta live!

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Anonymous 5d

i think that yes it can feel predatory, but you’re not thinking in a predatory mindset

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Anonymous 5d

it’s ok to have feelings for other people you’re not a predator, it’s not some form of violation. most people would probably be flattered if they knew. we can’t be shaming eachother for presumed thoughts that aren’t even expressed or acted upon, everyone would be miserable all the time.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

Yeah. Idk, after some shit that happened I have a fear that men are “sizing me up” whenever I’m in public and I think I carry that fear inward. Despite understanding it, I still feel like an asshole

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

i’m sorry :( i totally understand what it’s like to understand something may be irrational or untrue, but still not being able to believe that it is

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