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I know this man is not my husband yet I can’t leave. what’s wrong w me 😭
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Anonymous 2w

complacency. feeling like the current situation is more comfortable than the unknown, even if you know the current situation will never lead to where you want

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

how do you get out of this feeling?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

you have to decide the long term outcome is not worth the short term comfortability and do something to change your trajectory (leave) worst case, nothing changes and you end up being with someone for half of your 20s. maybe that is acceptable, maybe even some parts were fun, but what about then? better to restart at 21 than try to get out of a 10 year relationship at 30 and face the reality after staying comfortable so long

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