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in general when women say they hate men their ideal world is avoiding men. when men say they hate women their ideal world is raping and killing them. no i do not think those are the same lol
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Anonymous 16h

Have you not seen the “men should be put in camps” rhetoric or are you just lying

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Anonymous 14h

While it’s obvs that it’s true to a certain extent, a small fraction of men who say that think that’s ideal. Plenty of men hate women but don’t want to physically assault or kill them. A large percent just want to be away from them as well. Please direct us to the study that supports that a majority of men think this way. Or be more specific without generalizing.

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Anonymous 9h

There are cases of women abusing people sexually. It just doesn’t get reported or it doesn’t get the right news coverage because obviously there is a lot of sexism in reference to men and boys having to be strong and also the silly notion of men having to enjoy such encounters, which is false and even harmful.

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Anonymous 9h

And I am saying this, as a person who has survived such abuse coming from women and still have to struggle with it every day

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

i actually haven’t! are women actually doing this though? or is it just words on a screen? bc men actually are raping and killing women bc they hate them, so while its not good and i don’t think it should be happening, it’s really not comparable

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

a woman tried to rape me because she hates men and genuinely believes they innately deserve to suffer.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15h

i’m very sorry to hear that. that doesn’t change the fact that generally, when a woman says she hates men, she wants to be away from them. i absolutely believe there are evil women out there who want to harm men for being men, just like there are men who don’t want to be around women. generally, though, that’s not the case

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13h

And there’s a homeless man who’s tried to intimidate me multiple times because I deliberately put space between us by walking on the grass when I passed him in the dark ONCE. It’s never anything I can take to police and I rather not give this man my exact address by filing a restraining order anyway but we’re going on over a year of me having to put extra work and thought into being safe on the off chance I MIGHT see this guy without people around.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13h

People do shitty things to others, but talking sheer numbers more men actively try to violently hurt women than women trying to violently hurt men.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12h

i'm not saying that she represents all women, most of my friends are women. but i have met a few women who are genuinely sadistic monsters towards men and i think we should acknowledge that instead of just the rhetoric that men want to kill/rape women and women just dislike patriarchy. there are women that like sexism and want pain and suffering for men. a minority, obviously, but they are real people

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12h

i don't bring it up often, especially not in these conversations, but i felt like it was relevant as OP asks if these are real people or just crazy online posts, cause i know firsthand that these women do exist

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12h

i never said the majority of men hate women. i said of men who hate women, the majority want to hurt them. and the majority of women who hate men want to be away from them

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12h

tbf i was only talking about the idea that women are putting men in camps. i know there are terrible women who hurt men out there, as i already said

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

Exactly. So where’s that study?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12h

tbh im high rn and i really don’t feel like combing for a study lol just look up violent crime stats to see the difference between men and women to see how they deal with hate

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

It kinda just sounds like you view men in a worse light than women and are just hoping for there to be a study that makes it okay to think like that

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11h

i’m okay with you thinking that tbh. i personally think the crime rates between men and women show a clear enough example of how hate for the opposite gender manifests but if that’s not enough to convince you then it’s not enough 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous 11h

yeah again i’ve never said the majority of men hate women or are even violent against them. i will say tho sex crimes is probably one of the worst examples you could have picked with how underreported it is and how difficult it can be to get a conviction

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

Men don’t even get their own category for misandry-motivated crimes when it comes to prejudice-related felonies but women do. They don’t even care about us enough to keep track of ours

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11h

can you give me some examples of women stating they’ve killed or assaulted men bc they’re men. like actual cases

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Anonymous 11h

Also apparently 90% of males that do commit sexual crimes are usually against people they already know so the majority are not taking it out on women as a whole

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Anonymous 11h

Only 3-4% of SA’s are convicted. And that’s the percentage of only 20-30% of SA that’s even reported. Mine wasn’t. I tried but the people that were supposed to be taking care of the rape kit made it so awful I couldn’t go all the way through with it. Plus I was a “bad” victim. Drugged and the bastard hadn’t even given me a real name when we were dating.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11h

i hate to break it to you but assaulting a woman you know is still assaulting a woman. what difference is there in your mind between ‘women as a whole’ only including strangers being attacked and not women men already know? unless you’re suggesting she did something to deserve being assaulted and the attack was in response to that?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

Off the top of my head, I remember that one russian lady who tried to storm a kindergarten with a shotgun after killing her own father and she was highly misandrist based on her manifestos but luckily they stopped her

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

You asked for men who assaulted women out of misogyny. If its someone they know its much more likely to be out of personal reasons than women as a whole

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11h

is this what you’re talking about? bc that’s a 14 year old and i couldn’t find anything about her hating men

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

Also there’s valerie solanas who attempted to assassinate andy warhol in 1968 and had an entire manifesto as well of misandry that advocated for the elimination of men

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

No its not

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11h

okay can you send a link or something then bc that’s all that came up

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

Search up polin dvorkina

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

Also there’s aileen wuornos who killed seven men who was noted for frequent anti-male statements

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11h

solanas knew warhol tho and she tried to kill him bc he stole her play. if you wanna use the excuse men who hurt women they know arent doing it bc of misogyny then these women who attacked men they knew didn’t do it because of misandry

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11h

also describing wuornos like that when it’s very well known she killed rapists is like. crazy lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

I didn’t say it was an excuse. I’m saying jt affects statistics which still affects these examples

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

None of them were convicted or even accused of rape. She killed them during robberies

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11h

that’s crazy omg but the anti male sentiments were like. literally the first thing that popped up on the wiki page so using this as an example of men not getting recognition for hatred against them doesn’t really prove your point? for like the 100000000th time i fully acknowledge there are women who hurt men, but generally that’s not the case

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

Maybe wait until you’re sober to do some legit research instead of taking out anger on men

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11h

she was a sex worker who killed her clients. someone who has to coerce someone into sex by money is a rapist

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

Maybe they all go undocumented especially since there isn’t even a documentation for hate crime cases filed under misandry but there is for misogyny. Did that ever click?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

Also what wiki page

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

She killed them while robbing them. Sounds like she was taking care of witnesses to her crimes

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11h

the wiki page for polin dvorkina

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11h

yeah bc misandry isn’t a system of oppression. men aren’t oppressed on the basis of sex. there are clearly so few cases that the need for a specific name for women attacking men isn’t there

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

She literally had manifestos of her contempt for men. She vowed for a movement of misandry

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

Any act of prejudice upon another is oppression. There are no excuses even if you’re the perpetrator

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11h

yeah bc she would promise them sex in exchange for money to get them alone. they wouldn’t have gone with her if they weren’t doing that

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11h

it’s prejudice but it isn’t oppression. oppression is a systemic form of discrimination

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

So she lulled them into a false sense of security and attacked when they were vulnerable and then killed them to silence them with a rape accusation to justify each murder?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

Which misandry still counts as. Especially when the system is overlooking misandry related crimes

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11h

yeah i’m agreeing with you. that’s my point. her hate for men is very well known

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

I’d say even at least misogyny hate crimes are at least acknowledged. Ours aren’t even a category

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11h

misandry is prejudice sure but it’s not oppression. women can’t oppress men on the basis of sex when they’re the victims of sex based oppression themselves

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11h

again bc men aren’t oppressed on the basis of sex, so there’s no need for it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

like cases of right handed people being attacked by left handed people aren’t tracked bc there’s no system of oppression for righties (even tho you could argue the opposite is true for lefties bc most things are made with right handed people in mind)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

*The oppression of men based on sex isn’t acknowledged

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11h

if by false sense of security you mean she made them believe they’d get to rape her, sure. she did that. and those men went along believing (and in at least one case actually did) they’d get to rape her

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11h

bc it doesn’t exist

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

Because you look away from it

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11h

men aren’t denied jobs or housing or anything based off of their sex. i’m not denying women hurt men bc of it, but it’s not a widespread thing when compared to actual oppression like misogyny and racism and classism

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11h

no because it deadass doesn’t exist lol. if women en mass went out and started killing men then yeah i’d say we needed a term for it. but a few fringe attacks ≠ oppression

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

You just said it doesn’t exist. Find me a study for it then and if you can’t find one that doesn’t mean its not real. It means nobody cared to look into it

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11h

you want me to find a study that proves something doesn’t exist? mama i’m high but not THAT high

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

High and ignorant? Makes sense you go so far out of your way to cover up misandry

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

You used being high as an excuse to do no research on any statistics that have the potential of proving some kind of relevance of misandry and yet you factchecked every example of women committing misandry and tried to find an excuse for each and every one of them so clearly you’re not that high. Bias runs deep in this system

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11h

you’re asking me to prove the sky is green lol. if something’s not true there won’t be any evidence for it… which means there won’t be any studies… bc it’s not true…

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11h

if you can send some articles that proves misandry is real tho i’ll take a look at them. i’ll even do it sober 😋

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

Then you shouldn’t have a problem doing a quick google search for it right? Or are you that much of a pussy to admit you’re wrong?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11h

well yeah i got invested. and i wanted to see if you were actually right. just to check are you mad that i did that or..?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11h
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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

https://www.nature.com/articles/s41598-024-81567-9

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11h

so i fear it told me exactly what i’ve been saying lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

https://www.vanityfair.com/news/2019/02/men-are-scum-inside-facebook-war-on-hate-speech

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

It says in the overview it got it from reddit. Would you like me to bring sources from reddit too?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11h

these were all the other sources lol, tbh the google search really wasn’t very fruitful in finding any actual proof of misandry. do you think it’d be different if i looked up if misogyny is real?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

You’re the one who will gladly cover your eyes so you tell me if you’re mad

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11h

i typed out the other one letter by letter send a screenshot like i have or i’m not reading it lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11h

why would i be mad im having fun :(

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

Nah I got some for you since your ineptitude is through the root: https://www.facebook.com/8atthetable/videos/misandry-is-real-toxic-women-structural-power-talk/1666392244472981/

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11h

i’m not typing all of that out lol send a screenshot of it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

You do less and less of the minimum each and each time and now you’re not even capable of a copy and paste? Maybe men should clean your ass too like you probably want

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11h

i’m on my phone i can’t copy paste comments. also don’t be weird lol if you don’t want a send a screenshot you don’t have to

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10h

I can copy and paste comments just fine on my phone. Don’t be lazy af just do it since you put in so much effort to come this far just to quit

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10h

i’m being so fr how bc i’ve never been able to do that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10h

Idk I just drag my finger on it like a website. I just think you’re not trying

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10h

You could even do a screenshot and copy and paste from there before its even saved. Takes like 10 seconds cuz then you could hit search web instead of copy

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10h

wait can you not comment videos?? i just screenrecorded trying to show it didn’t give me the option to copy and paste 😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10h

if you want to think this is me being lazy feel free lol but this convo was a lot of fun. i’m gonna sleep now but i hope you have a good night

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10h

I don’t see a difference in the way this app handles it compared to like google or safari. It just works fine on my end

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10h

Hold on I’m genuinely curious if you’re messing with me or not. Try like a double tap on text or even the screenshot thing. Maybe it’s the type of phone but if you do a screenshot and then page reader you can copy the text from there so the app configurations won’t even be a problem

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10h

no i’m being 100% genuine i’ve never been able to copy paste. i would love to bc it’d make it so much easier to actually read what people send when it’s just links, ive just been manually typing them into google 😭 i did just try the screenshot thing which i had no idea even existed and it works!!!!!!! omg i don’t have to type urls anymore goodBYE https://

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10h

Christ that sounds awful having to type out each url. Well at least you got that now have a good one

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9h

I am going to share a story with you that happened to me when I was a teenager. I was SA’ed by my Algebra II teacher in middle school. It was embarrassing and I could not report it at the time because when I tried at, a female principal threatened deportation to my mom who had just got a green card. It was degrading and embarrassing.

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