Confessions on Sidechat | confession: I’ve lived my whole life as a people pleaser, im not quite sure what my needs and wants even are. Bc I’ve always put everyone else’s over mine. Now i have an amazing partner who wants to be there for my needs/wants, but im at a loss for words

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Confessions 10w

confession: I’ve lived my whole life as a people pleaser, im not quite sure what my needs and wants even are. Bc I’ve always put everyone else’s over mine. Now i have an amazing partner who wants to be there for my needs/wants, but im at a loss for words

Anonymous 10w

as to what they are.

Anonymous 10w

We’re the same person I fear

Anonymous 10w

And im also reluctant to express a want or need bc then i feel “guilty” for making demands, even though he’s explicitly asking bc he cares.

Anonymous 10w

Start speaking up, da grow a pair when shit comes up, be like “hey knock it off”, just learn how to say no

Anonymous 10w

I’m jealous i want this

Anonymous

OP 10w

I know im definitely not always comfortable in all situations. But it’s hard to articulate what those are (even to myself), bc my body has accepted operating at high stress in most environments as the default

Anonymous

#2 10w

You’ll figure your shit out eventually