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Confessions 10w
Unfortunately, I don't like nonchalant men. Be dominant. Check on me. Be affectionate. Tell me I'm gorgeous. Plan dates. Buy me flowers. Be absolutely obsessed
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Anonymous 10w

Yes I love a yearner. My bf is like the first emotionally available guy I’ve been with & it’s so nice to be with someone who actually likes you lol

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Anonymous 10w

My bf is exactly like this and I love it

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Anonymous 10w

I had that. He switched up on me a random ass day and left me.

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Anonymous 10w

I don’t want a man unless he’s like that but I honestly don’t know if they’re out there. I want someone who would love and care about me as much as I would about them. I’d rather be alone than be with someone who doesn’t care.

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Anonymous 10w

where are these men???

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Anonymous 10w

Yea I did this and she ghosted me after a few dates

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Anonymous 10w

Fellas do yourself a favor, If she feels like she’s settling rather than striving.. you’re cooked. (this^ isn’t dominant defn, it’s contradictory delirious idealism) you know who to get guidance from, don’t be dissuaded by diary posts

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Anonymous 10w

All the lazy men outing themselves lol

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Anonymous 10w

Amennn

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Anonymous 10w

This

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Anonymous 10w

If you show that you care about me, I will absolutely do that. Every time I’ve done that though, they get disinterested.

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Anonymous 10w

That’s crazy! Must be where I’m at ig, my girl friends tell me to be nonchalant bc that’s what they like. How the turn tables lol

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Anonymous 10w

Then you say they love bombing

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Anonymous 10w

Ok cornball

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Anonymous 10w

be this way to a whore? let’s be serious. I just play along to smash and then release when I’m done

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Anonymous 10w

This might be narcissism I’m ngl

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Anonymous 10w

Pathetic

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Anonymous 10w

That’s not dominant. That’s actually pretty submissive. Nothing wrong with it, but what you’re describing is definitely not dominant.

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 10w

how is this submissive bruh

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 10w

Pretty much saying they want someone to simp. Cool but that’s submissive

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 10w

do you not know what those words mean

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 10w

Caring about your person isn’t submissive, you can be in control and actually care… People are confusing Dominant and Sadistic

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 10w

literally

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 10w

I got your back 🤗

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 10w

Of course caring about someone isn’t automatically submissive. Nonchalant people can of course show care as well.

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 10w

So what exactly are you disagreeing with?!? You’re agreeing with us

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 10w

Oof it sounds like you got redpilled way too hard 😬 This is giving 'Loving women is submissive and gay. The straight thing to do is to be submissive and obedient to ONLY other men and male authority.'

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 10w

The way in which nonchalant guys 'show they care' doesn't even register w women. It inspires 0 feelings of love or joy or satisfaction or anything. Only other men feel cared for and appreciative w that nonchalant shit.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10w

SAY IT AGAIN!!!! The hardcore Red Pillers are DL and don’t want to admit it Anyone Dominant with no care for the women is DL And no one can change my mind, I said what I said!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 10w

Lowkey, for a lot of the redpilled guys, I feel like they get redpilled into becoming DL 😭 like they may have actually been straight or straightish at some point, then they go down the redpill pipeline and end up becoming cognitively gay as fuck 'by accident' 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 10w

LITERALLY BRUH 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #22 10w

Very rare. I feel like they cease to exist, cause guys think it’s better to be nonchalant

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 10w

“Nonchalant” can be an excuse for sloth

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 10w

I love it too

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10w

I agreeeeeeee

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Anonymous replying to -> #28 10w

Thank you!!! The last guy tried to change my definition of the word “settle” I don’t even want to use that word at all and that’s how I knew he wasn’t the right person ❌ I only thrive and why settle when I can have everything ✨

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Anonymous replying to -> #29 10w

fatherless behavior 😂

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