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Confessions 22h
A little part of me dies everytime one of my guy friend confesses to me, like i’m thankful they find me attractive but damn i wish my personality was good enough to keep friends around
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Anonymous 21h

Ive given up on trying to be friends w guys tbh

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Anonymous 22h

Real

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Anonymous 19h

Yall just need better hbs I got 2 hgs that are my closest friends and they be setting me up with their friends it’s amazing

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Anonymous 20h

How common is this for you? Talking like it’s routine

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Anonymous 20h

Cringe

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Anonymous 20h

I’ve talked to men about this. Men cannot be strictly friends with women. The only reason they are friends with you is because they are physically attracted to you in some way. And you probably didn’t notice bc you did see them as only a friend. It’s happened to me with every guy friend I’ve had. I’m no longer friends with guys anymore bc of it. That’s just my take tho!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 20h

it’s pretty much every single time

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 19h

Me when I have a bad experience so I lie on evb

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 19h

it’s not our fault? like for me i don’t ever know they’re like that until they try to sleep with me

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 19h

what’s cringe?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

I’m not saying it is but also I will say it’s extremely hard to find guys to be friends with cause ik a lot of people who go into friendships with the right intentions of just staying friends but then end up catching feelings and also if you’re attractive it will be harder for you to find good guy friends

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

It’s not your fault, at the same time some people act like it’s every man/ most men that are like this

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 15h

Nah I’m a guy with hella friends who are girls, never had interest in em and have been in a relationship 2 yrs the problem might be u

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 15h

I’m not even blaming her or anyone else who’s had that issue, but speaking on 4 billion people is kinda crazy 😭

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