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As a male, who is ugly but does every damn thing in his power to take care of himself, I got the first compliment in 5 years. Someone said they liked my tshirt buttons last night. Bitter sweet moment, I gotta wait 5 more years for another feeling lol
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Anonymous 2w

The truth is very few people are genuinely ugly. It’s almost rare like really beautiful

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Anonymous 2w

damn, this makes me wanna be a lot more deliberate with complimenting guys when I notice stuff I like about them

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Anonymous 2w

I know it sounds like bs bc we all crave validation but the longer you hold onto this mindset the more miserable and incel-y you will become. Focus on being a nice guy that people like instead of an attractive one

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

I have had a girlfriend or two, just not anymore. I’m just not looking for an emotional relationship rn. But I’m not wrong in wanting a friend or someone who complements me. This was just a confession nothing too deep… I never said I was a “nice guy” or struggled with women. I just wish I had more friends lol.

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Anonymous 2w

? That’s not at all what this post is about lol.

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Anonymous 2w

If you call yourself a “nice guy” then you’re not actually being a good person for the right reasons. You’re expecting something in return.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Agreed I never said I was a nice guy lmao? I just said I’m ugly and try to take care of myself and felt happy I got a compliment…. U assumed I’m a nice guy????

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I was replying to #1 not you, but he deleted his comments

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Gotcha, thx fam didn’t mean to be rude. Have a wonderful day

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Do it

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