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i want to break up w my gf… we’ve been together for only 2.5-3 ish months already but said ily and met her family… i feel so bad but things have built up she’s 27 i’m f21 she wants to settle but i’m also leaving the state for college soon too. i feel bad.
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Anonymous 2w

It’s totally normal to feel bad but don’t string on a relationship you don’t want that’s even worss

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Anonymous 2w

don’t feel bad. put yourself first and never apologize for sticking up for your wants and needs. it’s as much about you as it is her

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

i ended things!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

good how did that go?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

i stood on my ground i still feel kind of bad but also lighter but i think it went okay. in the end she said “i hope you change your mind though” and she kept asking my reasoning and i told her like 3 different times and then i was like i’m gonna go you have a good night.. thoughts?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

that’s good. obvi she hopes you change your mind bc she wants to stay together but you gotta let go of things that aren’t serving you or aren’t in your best interest

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

if you have even the slightest off feeling it’s for a reason

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

ughhh i just wish i didn’t feel so bad for picking myself. i’m trying not to be a pushover anymore

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

girl i completely get how you feel. if you wanna talk not on here im totally here for you

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