Anonymous #2 14h

of course i tell him what i like and tell him to keep doing what feels good but he just doesn’t last and doesn’t keep touching me after he cums

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Anonymous #1 14h

valid asf

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Anonymous OP 14h

Ah. I’d focus on foreplay then. Have him get you off before penetrative sex. And don’t be afraid to introduce toys!

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Anonymous #2 14h

thank you 💗

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Anonymous #2 14h

i'm not the op but no man i've ever been with has been able to make me finish. this is the norm for straight women, to the point where there have been studies done- this is actually called the 'orgasm gap' i wish more men would take it upon themselves to do research and figure out how to please women ON THEIR OWN, without having their hand held every step of the way

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Anonymous #1 14h

omfg i completely agree. i didn’t have any experience before dating him cause we started dating quite young and i literally went onto phub and learned how to give good head and please him before we did anything. i don’t think he would do that because he doesn’t watch it and thinks watching porn is cheating but like i don’t care at all about that honestly like i’m just so sexually frustrated idec what he does anymore to figure it out i just need him to try.

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Anonymous #1 14h

Every woman is different though. What they enjoy and how they’re able to orgasm is different to everyone. Sure men shouldn’t come in clueless, but women shouldn’t be silent and expect them to figure it out on their own too. A majority of women can’t orgasm from penetrative sex alone. Hence the importance of oral, fingering, toys, and other forms of play and stimulation. And how each person enjoys that is different and needs to be communicated to each new partner

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Anonymous #2 14h

i understand that we should share how we’re feeling and what feels good, and i do communicate that, but he should also be able to notice when i’m breathing harder because i like something and continue that motion and stuff like it just makes me feel like he doesn’t care cause i do that to figure out what he’s liking and stuff like idk

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Anonymous OP 14h

Ha should yeah, but it may be difficult if he’s trying to focus on doing something or he may not be the type to pick up on that. Vocal sex is fun and sexy! Audibly saying “yes” “just like that” don’t stop” is not only good Fred back but HOT!

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Anonymous #3 11h

because i love him obviously? we’ve been together for so long and i love everything else about him but this has been really weighing on my mind recently. god forbid i use confessions as its intended to get something off my chest

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Anonymous OP 11h

Do u love him so much that him being a premature ejaculator that doesn’t make u cum isn’t a deal breaker

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Anonymous #3 11h

idk

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