beestboy on Sidechat | If you don’t like small talk you’re weird and trying too hard to be deep. There’s nothing wrong with talking about the weather and people’s day and what you had for lunch.

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Confessions 1d

beestboy

If you don’t like small talk you’re weird and trying too hard to be deep. There’s nothing wrong with talking about the weather and people’s day and what you had for lunch.

Anonymous 1d

Did you know it’s a diagnosable symptom of adhd (and maybe autism too but I might be wrong) to not be able to do small talk because your brain rejects it as a waste of time? I don’t try too hard to be deep, I just struggle so much with small talk because my brain always shuts it off

Anonymous 1d

Do people dislike small talk or the amount of small talk

Anonymous 1d

i don’t think anything’s wrong with it i just don’t like it lmao

Anonymous 1d

Disagree. Not trying to have pointless conversations. Life’s short idgaf about if you like the temperature today or not. I do small talk to build relationships and make people comfortable but keep it at a minimum and it’s awful.

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Anonymous

#1 1d

Omg you people can’t do anything

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beestboy 1d

Yeah you’re right and it fucking sucks

Anonymous

#1 1d

ohhhh myyyy fucking gooooodddd get a grip

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Anonymous

#1 1d

But yeah just cuz ur brain thinks it’s a waste of time doesn’t mean u shouldn’t or can’t do it. I’m not saying u have to, but some ppl shit all over small talk as if it’s bad

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Anonymous

#1 1d

ADHD brain makes executive functioning also seem pointless but u still gotta take showers and brush ur teeth

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beestboy 1d

No I completely agree with you. I still do it despite that because ik it’s important to other people. And I don’t shit small talk, I wish so badly it came easy to me. I’m just saying that sometimes it has nothing to do with trying to hard to be deep

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Anonymous

#1 1d

Yes that makes sense king I appreciate u sharing ur insight with an old miser like myself

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Anonymous

#3 1d

Hmmm good point nephew!!!

Anonymous

beestboy 1d

Thanks lol

Anonymous

#5 1d

You should stop projecting your shallowness in conversations as a complex for people who have meaningful conversations. Some people actually enjoy deep conversations others don’t. Wouldn’t want to be friends with people who don’t think deeply. It’s fine if you do but nothing wrong with people’s authenticity being different from yours

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Anonymous

#5 1d

If u say so