Anonymous #1 1d

Too much effort

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Anonymous #3 1d

What are their unique ways

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Anonymous #4 1d

No one men are just a hassle to put up with 😭

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Anonymous OP 1d

aw :( i'm sorry you feel that way. hopefully you find an exception to that rule eventually lol i swear they're not all bad

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Anonymous #4 1d

Yes lol obviously but they’re kinda hard to find

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Anonymous OP 1d

sooooo what did this guy do to incite a post?? ☕️

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Anonymous #4 1d

Be too entitled 😭He wanted me to spend more time with him than my friends but I’m not gonna change my life to accommodate him lmao. Like tf he think he is 😂

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Anonymous OP 1d

nah that is a red flag. like valid to want to spend time together, totally get it, but he's got to respect your time too.

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Anonymous #4 1d

Yes fr and it’s kinda insulting he asked. like did he think I was gonna be like “okay🤩”

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Anonymous OP 1d

idk you know this guy and i don't so I could def be wrong but I doubt he had bad intentions yk? you guys should have a conversation about boundaries and expectations, if its a relationship you want to last it'll keep things healthyy

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Anonymous #4 1d

How will it keep it healthy, won’t it just make it more complicated

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Anonymous #4 1d

But lol didn’t you just say it was a red flag?

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Anonymous OP 1d

it can definitely seem that way and its kinda daunting to approach it but long term there will be a lot less hurt feelings on both sides if y'all understand eachothers needs yk? and if he cant compromise with you then it might not be working. also yes i do still think its probably a red flag if he thinks you spend too much time with your friends rather than him, i just think its important to investigate the reasons behind why that conversation started in the first place

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Anonymous #4 1d

Tbh I was just gonna break up with him. I can’t deal with his insecurities tbh

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Anonymous #4 1d

Like why do I have to search for his reasons

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Anonymous OP 1d

What do you mean by reasons? I wouldn't say that you're wrong for feeling that way though, life's hard enough just dealing with your own problems not mention somebody else's

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Anonymous #4 1d

Like u said the reasons the convo started in the first place

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Anonymous OP 1d

And exactly if anything, he should be helping me with my own problems 😅

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