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i’m not sure what it is, but i’ve noticed that i find it a lot more flattering for a guy to find me physically attractive After it’s already clear our personalities are compatible, instead of when my appearance is the first thing he compliments about me
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Anonymous 1d

as i think abt it, it’s def not only a trust thing where i need more reassurance in their character before i can accept more shallow flattery, but also a sort of backup plan in case he loses interest in my personality bc at least he’ll still find me pretty and that’s something i can hold on to

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Anonymous 1d

Yeah that’s the dream but unforch it’s usually the opposite

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

no i know, it’s just something i’ve noticed, though i’m lucky enough that i don’t often talk with more superficially-interested guys much? probably bc ive been told i come across as very unavailable so those who get to know me actually like me as a person

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