
Hi OP, I am a virgin by choice. This is very true because a lot of it in essence is a ballon pop at best and the guy doesnāt last as long for what the woman needs. This nirvana of pleasure doesnāt really happen at all. When it does, itās because the partners know and trust each other for a while and got to map out their senses and emotions and learn to synch to reach that nirvana at the same time. Many relationships donāt even get there.
My friends would talk about their experiences and noticed a common theme. The nirvana pleasure doesnāt arrive and itās a ballon pop typically for the guy. I read studies about it and show that pleasure doesnāt really happen with hookups because trust isnāt there and there a differences in time and senses for partners. As I observed people from the outside. The story is the same.