
Hi OP, I am a virgin by choice. This is very true because a lot of it in essence is a ballon pop at best and the guy doesn’t last as long for what the woman needs. This nirvana of pleasure doesn’t really happen at all. When it does, it’s because the partners know and trust each other for a while and got to map out their senses and emotions and learn to synch to reach that nirvana at the same time. Many relationships don’t even get there.
My friends would talk about their experiences and noticed a common theme. The nirvana pleasure doesn’t arrive and it’s a ballon pop typically for the guy. I read studies about it and show that pleasure doesn’t really happen with hookups because trust isn’t there and there a differences in time and senses for partners. As I observed people from the outside. The story is the same.