Anonymous #1 4d

Unfortunately yeah. If only people kept their bedroom activities in their bedroom.

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Anonymous #1 4d

twitter hasnt been like this since 2021 lowkey

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Anonymous #3 4d

If I’m not in the bedroom putting in the work, why is it my business? Why you gotta make it your personality 💀 What you said is not relevant to my post

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Anonymous #8 4d

I think this take isn’t conscious of what people may go through. You may view it as well ppl are just just very showy with it I would doubt that but ok

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Anonymous #5 4d

Social media has always been this way you’re practically anonymous and a nobody and can share whatever you want to say as long as you don’t have your face plastered on the screen 😭😭 like what are you talking about

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Anonymous #8 4d

Thank you for saying this, these cishet ppl don’t get it and how harmful it is 🤦

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Anonymous #7 4d

It’s harmful and no one understands what intersectionality or microaggressions is and ppl can spew shit like this it’s irritating 🫤

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I can’t look at both sides when blk queer and women have been oppressed and still are few to laws and the correct administration that’s taking precedence rn which affects how people interact with other ppl just because someone has pins of the lgbt flag or say me too. It’s part of their identity just like culture and experience one faces…

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I’m quite confused on what you mean whole personality can you explain or give an example

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i wonder how you define “making it their personality”

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Anonymous OP 4d

i mean, being gay, lesbian, bi, what have you does affect people in life more than just in the bedroom. People’s safety is at risk, and it’s really disheartening to see all the anti LGBTQ policies going into place in the current political climate. Why do people get to regulate our lives and sexualities when people don’t like it when we even talk about it? ultimately it’s a facet of our personality and us as people, but those who hate it boil us down to JUST gay or JUST lesbian, not whole people.

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Anonymous #10 4d

amen! and that’s compulsive heterosexuality, it’s never a problem until it’s queer

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Anonymous #10 4d

That’s not even close to what I said…you’re being purposefully obtuse…idgaf if you mention your bf:gf/partner/whatever…I care when we can’t have a conversation without sexuality being brought up…if it’s not relevant to the conversation don’t bring it up…and yes I’m talking about straight ppl too…

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buddy you do know queer culture is a thing right? like i don’t go around just telling people that i’m trans but i do like to talk about how i’m involved in my local queer community and the queer events i go to

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Anonymous #1 4d

you deserve to lose your job if you say this.

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Anonymous OP 4d

when you say conversations about sexuality and are including straight people, is it like conversations around sex? because normally when people say that without the specification they mean talking about queerness, so i think people might not know what you mean here, like what the problem is

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Anonymous #15 4d

and even then, long live honestly

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Anonymous #11 4d

Possibly, though I think in the absence of opposition it will just become a normal thing and people won’t really think about it as a separate concept. A big part of pride is defiance against suppression imo. But yeah it will live a long time because the suppression also lived for a long time lol

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Anonymous #15 4d

But that’s all hypothetical and way out in the future lol, maybe what I should have said is that pride only exists because of homophobia. Equal and opposite reactions and shit

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I feel like the people who express themselves more are the ones who have felt unable to do so previously. They felt like they can’t be themselves for a long time and it gets pent up, so that when they finally get to be their true selves, it comes out a lot stronger. I don’t blame them for that at all

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Idk I never really seen that happen unless the topics are surrounding queer culture.

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Are you sure you aren't talking about imaginary scenarios?

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2 instances bubba smh the world population is 8.3 billion people and 1 in less than 10 is queer. That means there are roughly 830 million queer people in the world. Your two interactions mean nothing I hope you understand that

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UH DUH

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I hope you realize the queer community does in fact have its own very specific culture that one could very easily label as "choosing to make sexuality a personality trait"

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Doesn't change the fact that it is established CULTURE

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People cannot be separated from culture. That's a fact of humanity. You should not be upset by someone talking about their culture. If their mannerisms are inconsiderate that's a different story, but if it's just their identity in an applicable context, there is no need to be in a tizzy

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Anonymous #13 3d

Gosh - anyone notice that 4 completely disappeared? I hope I didn’t say anything wrong! He was big on agreeing with OP in that “I think it’s just the constantly talking about it part..they mold it onto themselves and make the community look bad”. I got a little confused/worried, so I brought up how my grandma brings up her Mexican background often…but that to me, it doesn’t mean she has ‘no personality outside of being Mexican’ she’s just sharing about her loved ones, community, culture, etc.

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Anonymous OP 3d

Be real, no gay person brings up their sex out of blue, your issue is seeing a different form of sexuality that doesn’t conform to your world view.

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Anonymous #13 3d

Why do queer people have to have events about who they prefer to sleep with or who they're attracted to?? Straights don't do that- hence the "you make it your personality" accusations

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Anonymous #19 3d

We don't! Hope this helps!

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Anonymous #19 3d

If you’re talking about pride month it’s because they actually had to fight for the right to legally marry their same sex partner and other rights essential for LGBTQ+ people to live normal lives. “Straights” don’t have a pride month to themselves because they’ve never had to fight for these rights obviously, so there was nothing to overcome and thus nothing to celebrate. You are the norm, the status quo. If you’re so pressed about that go make a pride month for yourself and leave us alone.

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Anonymous #19 3d

Boy I hope you’ve never been to a wedding

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Anonymous #19 3d

because being queer is about community not just “who they prefer to sleep with”. god forbid i wanna hang out with people who are like me and share my experience. in my case i run events for trans people cos i often connect with other trans people better than i do with most cis people.

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Anonymous #19 3d

if you’re idea of queer events is narrowed just down to our sexuality then you genuinely have no knowledge on what the queer community is let only minority communities in general

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