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can men stop going to clubs alone and then following around girls who talk to them for like 2 minutes? jesus!! i want to be with my friends, go away! and away does not mean sneak behind me. like why do you have me physically pushing you multiple times??!!
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Anonymous 3w

be damn near 30 years old like old ass chopped ass, following me around! ugh

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Anonymous 3w

I’m confused I thought women were upset men weren’t approaching? Obviously not in a pushy way but I take what a person says online with a grain of salt

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Anonymous 3w

It is always guys around my dads age doing this

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Anonymous 3w

Can you say something cause I did this one time and didn’t even realize it until the end of the night… then was like oh I thought you liked having me around 😭😭

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Anonymous 3w

this is why i don’t go to clubs lol

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Anonymous 3w

I wish I had this problem. Be grateful

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

i don’t want a man 10 years older than me following me around. it’s that simple. an interaction can be had but if i’m telling you i have to go back to my friends, don’t follow me. if you want to ask me out, then ask me as i’m about to leave the interaction. but if i reject you, don’t go looking around for me and trying to sneak up behind me. i am not obligated to be attracted to you and most of the time they’re asking for a hookup. men at nightclubs alone often have that plan.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

idk what about following a woman around like a lost pet seems like the solution to men not approaching women. it’s also very funny to think that the average man going to a nightclub alone who follows around women, is not hoping for sex. they’re not there for romance. they’re desperate and they’re banking on drunk women being so fucked up that they’ll go home with them. and this man was! i want a nice man my age who approaches me respectfully and wouldn’t take a rejection as playing hard to get.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

It took her brother to be like “dude go home” at the end of the night when I asked where we were going next, I instantly felt stupid after that 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

girl who said i didn’t say anything? but also if someone is walking away from you, or they’re dancing w their people and you’re just behind her and she’s barely acknowledging you, or she’s walking away and not turning to you to go with with them, just assume they don’t want you around. if she wants to see you again, she’ll go up to you. go out with friends!! or meet guys at a bar and go somewhere with them! you look less creepy if you don’t look like you’re on a mission.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

y’all are so weird. maybe you’re attracted to any old fart who harasses you but not me. it’s not anything to be grateful for.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

But realize there are some women who don’t get acknowledged at all because of short skinny white girls

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

ok so i’m not any of these things??… and short skinny white girls don’t want to be approached by these men either. you should want a respectful man to approach you. if you’re down for creepiness and disrespect, finding a man should be SO easy for you. these types like anything with a vagina, just go to up to them. idk you’d want to encourage this behavior. you should want respect and not harassment but you do that.

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