
cuz it's the appropriate thing to do in that social context. literally all you have to do is be chill until your friend achieves whatever they intend to achieve with my friend. unless ur autistic, it should be abundantly clear that we are wing people for our friends in that moment.
the other guy that came with the guy my friend wanted to talk to was rude asf to me for no reason at the double date we went on. the only reason it was a double date is because my friend didn't know the guy well and didn't want to go somewhere alone with him if they were going to be drinking, so she told the guy to bring a friend so it wouldn't be an awkward third wheel situation. but bc the friend couldn't be normal, it became an awkward four wheel situation š¤£
i didn't need him to flirt with me. i just needed us to chit chat to not make it awkward. for ex., before i even really said anything besides introducing myself, this weirdo goes "tbh you're not really my type" and i'm like "ok. can i get you a drink or something? do you drink?" and he wouldn't even answer me at first until the bartender asked him. then as we drink, he's like yeah you're not my type and i don't like the drink you ordered. like bro are u ok? š
I personally have never been attracted to someoneās body or face, obviously I think good looks are attractive but if I like you or think youāre attractive, itās mostly for your mind and who u are as a person. Iāve spent years of my life chopped and I knew it, but it was in due time shit really did changed for me.