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Unfortunately, I don't like nonchalant men. Be dominant. Check on me. Be affectionate. Tell me im gorgeous. Plan dates. Buy me flowers. Be absolutely obsessed with me
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Anonymous 18h

I had a chalant/obsessive man and he turned out to be way too much. So idk I’m kinda in the middle about this. Affection and flower are good but I can’t spare that much energy bro

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Anonymous 18h

I SECOND THIS

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Anonymous 18h

I yearn for this

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Anonymous 18h

You lost me on the first one sorry

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Anonymous replying to -> lightbluehater 18h

yeah yeah we get it 🙄 go watch glee

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18h

Make me

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Anonymous replying to -> lightbluehater 18h

You’re not dominant. So what I’m sure there plenty of women that like subs

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 18h

There’s a way to do it without being too much

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

Yeah it was funny for me to comment so I did

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Anonymous replying to -> lightbluehater 18h

hey if you’re so sub, you’d listen to me and watch glee

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18h

That’s what brats are for

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Anonymous replying to -> lightbluehater 18h

i’m a brat…be more brat. #bratsummer

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

Yeah he needed attention every few hours and also constant reassurance and I just couldn’t do it. And he still cried over his ex fwb

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18h

Sorry

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 17h

Yeah that’s not what being obsessive and nonchalant is

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

attention every few hours and reassurance is quite literally obsessed i think you mean you want him to be “possessive” over you; possessive is like you’re mine and no one else’s while obsessive is talk all the time and reassurance along with never leaving you alone

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 16h

Yeah he was all of those things. He was possessive which I liked a lot, but he was also obsessive and needy, which just ended up draining all of my energy whenever I spent time with him

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 16h

that’s what i’m saying OP doesn’t want obsessive she wants possessive and it’s two completely different things

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