If you were worried about someone’s response to wishing them a happy birthday, then they are not worth reaching out to in general
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Anonymous#13w
Right but what if he’s nice then IS he worth it? It doesn’t matter bc the POSSIBILITY of him being cold is what’s killing me. I can’t handle the risk
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AnonymousOP3w
I think the point is that you have to fear that in the first place. He must have done something to make you afraid he’ll be cold and mean from a simple happy birthday.