Anonymous #1 10w

Sometimes the warmth and touch can be overwhelming and I find the lubrication texture a little slimy and unpleasant. I imagine it will get better

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Anonymous OP 10w

have you considered asexuality?

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Anonymous OP 10w

do you enjoy masturbating? if so, how do you get around the textures, stimulation, and wetness that comes from that? maybe you can emulate that with sex. because the wetness, warmth, touch, and stimulation is everything there is about sex in my experience. so i personally cant picture what sex could look like without those elements. i don’t think it be dry, colder, and without so much touch and stimulation. i wouldn’t be sex i think. but it’s ok to not like sex

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it’s totally ok, whatever people want to do in the bedroom. i’m just trying to understand and help find a solution!

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they said they don’t like basically everything about sex, it’s not ridiculous to suggest asexuality lol

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Anonymous #1 10w

Really appreciate it-yes I have considered asexuality and I think I might exist in that neighborhood. I do love the feeling of closeness and would love to work through some of this so I can have a fulfilling relationship, so I’m hopeful that over time it will just feel less overwhelming. Trying to get into therapy too honestly

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Anonymous OP 10w

i hope it gets better and your therapist gets you closer to where you want to be! 😊 you can definitely have a fulfilling relationship with lots of physical closeness without sex. i hope you figure out what’s best for you and your partner

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