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Confessions 1d
It’s probably a hot take but I seriously think poly people or people who wanna be poly have unresolved commitment issues and unchecked greed
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Anonymous 1d

Oh well people who aren't poly aren't doing any better. I feel the same about when people have critiques about gay people raising kids... the straight people aren't doing any better. So why complain about only one group

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Anonymous 1d

I love commitment so much I want to be committed to multiple people. The greed thing is fair tho

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Anonymous 1d

Greed maybe but a lot of the times they have better communication skills and commitment because it’s required. As someone who’s poly and has been in a poly relationship for many years

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

I see you, I hear you, I think you’re in a super small minority of successful poly relationships. Am I poly? No. I however went to an art college and still to this day haven’t seen a successful poly relationship from anyone I know or my poly friends. Usually the thing I’ve observed is someone breaks the established rules of the relationship out of greed or an inability to commit.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

You could say that about monogamous relationships too. They’re just more saturated.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

I’m probably just not articulating my point well cuz saturation has nothing to do with what I’m saying.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Sometimes I just wanna voice my thoughts. I didn’t say anything for or against any other group. Any comparison you’re drawing is your own projection

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